My friend Jen had a boyfriend and they were dating for 3 months. She told her boyfriend she was a virgin and i guess it turn him off or whatever and he broke up with like a day or 2 after she told him. He said he don't really go with virgins because he does not want to be the first and there too clingy. Why are men so weird first they don't want women who has had many sex partners and then they complain when they are virgins? Is this just him or is this normal to all men?
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1. 6 hours ago
LOL no shes not 40 shes only 20
2. 6 hours ago
Me and my friend are both virgins hijKlmno and both for 2 diffrent reasons.
3. Was she 40?
4. Most guys would take it as an incredible compliment that the girl has chosen him to be her first.
5. it must be just him cause thats kinda a crazy reason to dump a girl. it sounds like he was just lookin for sex.
6. he's weird tell your friend to find a new one
7. Obviously, that guy is a jerk. He probably just wanted her for that reason, right? I'm sure not everyone is the same, of course. One day she'll meet the right guy, and it'll be perfect. I truly respect, however, the fact that she is still a virgin. I mean -you.
8. wow thats abit stupid! what is she meant to say.. wait up im going to sleep with another guy so im no longer a virgin then you'llbe happy with me right?
STUPID STUPID! my guy and i are both ECSTATIC that we're both the firsts for each other and im sure most people WOULD be.. its a special thing to lose your virginity to the person you love most rather than just a bunch of flings!
i think he's WRONG to ASSUME she'll get clingy.. he just sounds like the type whos afraid of commitment and im going to straight out say hes a stupid coward!!
no offence to anybody who is like this... but i think if it was true love, being a virgin wouldnt and SHOULDNT matter. if its a matter of lust/a fling or anything else like that then it WOULD matter because the person is thinking of their OWN ENJOYMENT. BEING SELFISH. WHY? because they think if they're with a virgin... she wont be "experienced" and give him the fantasy he's been dreaming of. these people you should stay away from .. its not love! theyre just using you and are NOT worth. if a guy judges you on a bases of how many sex partners you have, leave because you deserve better - you deserve respect and to know it shows you have enough self dignity!
p.s. REAL MEN ARENT THIS STUPID!!!!
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9. Well. I think it's a combination of both. They don't want a girl to have more experience than them...because it makes 'em think the girls' dirty. But then, if she is a virgin, he's afraid she will be clingy afterwards and he doesn't want to deal with the drama. He just wants to have fun with her, love her, and leave her....no strings attached...see?
But yeah, some guys would love to be a girls first, and some guys would rather have a girl with experience. IT all varies depending on the person. Girls are like this too in some reguard.
10. ,NO WE DO NOT! WE RESPECT THAT! ITS A SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE,SELF RESPECT,MORALITY,MATURITY,INTE... MOST OF ALL WHAT WE LOOK FOR IN A LADY,
11. Sounds like he didn't like his chances of having sex with her. Virgins are not clingy but, at 20 years old, is she waiting for marriage? If so, he probably didn't like the prospect of waiting.
Sorry to say, many men are like this! Sex is important to most people (especially men) so virgins tend to find it harder to find a compatible partner.
She needs to hang in there! There are many guys like me that have no problem dating virgins.
12. honestly guys want somone who will put out, but is not a wh0r3.
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