ok, questions!-- being bisexual. and to those it applies to. what kind of stigmas and stereotypes do you encounter and what do you say or do as opposed to explaining the lifestyle you live, everyone is entitled to be with whoever they want, is my thing and what do you think about a newer lifestyle called polyamourous? {for those who don't know- it's 3 in a relationship} how do you view that in liight of so many marriages going under? you don't have to agree and it's cool, just the whole bisexual thing and confusion and people being a bit put off by that sometimes, what do you think overall???
Answers:
1. well 2 ladys and me is great and polyamourous sounds great 2 me !
what are you doing this coming weekend ?
2. It's not your fault. Don't mind them. As long as you are happy and dont hurt anyone. Who cares.
3. I've noticed people assume that being bi means being attracted to everyone in sight, when for me it means that it's just that gender is irrelevant when i do happen to be attracted to someone (and it's actually not very often i meet someone that i am instantly attracted to)
about polyamoury (sp?):
I've known people in polyamourous relationships, and for some it works, but for others that try i think the cultural roles of jealousy and such make it very difficult to maintain an open relationship. Personally, i've chosen monogomy and i'm very happy. to each his/her own.
4. I'm straight, but why does it matter what others think?? If you're attracted to a guy or lady, does it really matter if the guy next door agrees? Do you need his/her approval to be with somebody or to be in love with somebody whomever that might be? Do you need their approval to date more then 1 person?
If you're comfortable with who you are dating, it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. You just have to remember that everybody needs to be talking to each other. it could get sticky if jealousy starts to show its ugly head!
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