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Uhhhh..........my ex!?

   
My bf and i just broke up ovr the weekend and he's acting as it nothing happend. But he's not talking to me or even trying to work things out. Does this mean that he's ovr me already or is just very mad at me???!!!!

Answers:

1. If you broke it off then he is mad at you. His pride is wounded, but he'll get over it. If he broke it off, then he is saying STAY away. If it's mutual {does that really exist?} then it is still a pride thing. Males have an attitude problem when it comes to being dumped. If you really don't want to get back with then leave it and who cares if he talks to you. What difference will that make in your future. If you want to return to him then understand him and figure out how to restore his pride thing. Make him feel like he was the one who made the reconciliation happen. Pump up his esteem {ego actually}.

2. How long have you been together? Is he the type of guy that just needs some space and time to think and reflect? That is possible. He may be taking some time to cool down and figure out what he really wants. I think you should just give him time to think. If you are meant to be together, I think it will happen. Take care and please hang in there!! Good luck to you also!!

3. lol it could be a mix of both or he just doesnt wanna show it... some / most guys never wanna show there weaknesses when a girls breaks there heart or he could have had someone on the side and that could be why he really didnt seem to care... i dont know your ex........ so i dont know it could be one of the things i listed or none