...tonight but really, I'm going to break up with her. You see, I've been sleeping with her sister for the last 18 months and Jen, my fiance, doesn't know about it. I've talked with Amy (Jen's sister) about our future plans and we both agree it would be best to elope together. I'm not sure about our kid (she's 24 months old) and what will happen to her. But I don't care. I'm in love with Amy now. Do you have an advice on how I should tell Jen?
Answers:
1. Wow. I think you both should tell her together while the child is being cared for somewhere else.
Go slowly, slowly, slowly with Amy. Eloping is a bad idea right now. Don't get married yet. Then, you won't have to go through a divorce.
As for your daughter. I hope you have a good lawyer.
2. I'm sorry but this is really sorry. First you should have NEVER got involved with her sister. Thats her SISTER! Your going to tear the relationship of her and her sister up and then your fiance will never be able to trust you or her sister. You'll probaly tear the whole family up. Its really bad when you don't even care what happens to the kid. You should just break up with you fiance and forget about the sister if your going to break up.
3. That's pretty sick, man. Very heartless. I hope you're satisfied about this. Break your fiance's heart, go off with her sister, leave your two year old daughter. Always a good plan. You're scum.
4. This only illustrates how selfish you are being right now. You really need to think about what's best for your DAUGHTER not YOURSELF. Imagine your daughter growing up to find out that Daddy is now with Auntie ... and then what happens if it doesn't work out with Amy? Then what are you going to do? You'll have ruined three lives ... Maybe it's time you focused on your daughter and thought about what's going to be best for HER.
Good luck. You're going to need it.
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