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What is it with guys and threesomes?

   
The guy that I have been talking to for quite a few months now..Insinuated about a girl he knows liking me, then He proceeded to ask me how do I feel about having a threesome?....I felt so offended and I told him i wasnt interested...and I hung up on him..I ll probably never talk to him again...but its not the first time a guy asks me this question...what is it with guys and threesomes?...Would a guy that really likes you ask you this types of things??

Answers:

1. 5 hours ago
My main concern is that this dude is not taking me serious...am I being too close minded.... I mean is this a sign that this guy is not really into me??

2. I think the thing with threesomes is that the guys want to see the girls do stuff. It's not so much about them wanting to have sex with 2 girls, it's watching the 2 girls have sex.

3. yup...see its simple mathematics an problem solving what is better than one hot girl sleeping with you? 2 hot girls sleeping with you

4. men like a challenge

5. It's just about sex. It's a visual thing. We like the sight of beautiful women performing before us. Since you asked, what is it with ALL THE WOMEN who actually perform and participate in them? Apparently it's NOT just "a guy thing" in case you hadn't noticed. Why is it that some women want to dump all their negative thoughts on us guys? We're all in this thing together. Women have just as many sexual turn ons & hang ups. So don't try to play guys as being all wrong all that time. That is so not fair.

6. Some guys see sex just as something that feels good that they can brag to their friends about. The main reason he wants a threesome is probably just to experiment and see what it's like. Who knows, you might end up enjoying it if you try it.

7. i think it is nasty, my boyfriend said that once and i was very offended "he says he was joking" but i think that if they really cared for you they would not be able to let some other chick be all over you....

8. yes a guy can love u with all of his heart but the thought of 2 women having sex is going to turn him on. But for him to ask, you should have said no and changed the subject. Threesomes to a guys is just like giving head they gon' ask eventually.

9. whats all this talk about sex??!!

10. the threesome is the ultimate male fantisy. And they never end good. Most guys are not into doing that with the gf in tow, most of the time they do it when they are single with 2 single girlsthey are not in a meaningful relationship with. Its for the excitement and bragging rights and thats about it. And next time they mention it, say sure your interested as long as he's interested in having one with another guy :D

11. its basicly just a fantasy most guys have kinda like gurls with firemen and all that kinda crap not all guys are like that

12. ha ha ha joseph I = funny! but yeah i think they just get turned on by it but its mostly a joke

13. ONLY IF YOU CAN WATCH HIM HAVE SEX WITH TWO GUYS AND WATCH HIM GO HIDE LOL ..LOL

14. Some guys dream to do 2 chicks at the same time or watch some girl on girl action. It is a sexual fantasy, some guys I guess just can't control themselves. I think yeah a guy who really likes you would ask unless you previously made it clear before that you are not at all interested.

15. Girls fantasize about being with one guy on the beach or wherever. Guys fantasize about multiple girls. Of course this is a generalization, but a significant number of guys do this. It doesn't mean we want to live with and love all those girls, it's a purely sexual thing. We still go home to the original.