What would you do if your fond of a friend here but don't want to spoil it?

1. Well no-one can make that decision but you, but think about it, you just said she understands you, cares about you and helps you, now that sort of thing is rare to find and you have a friend like it, if you tell her and she doesnt feel the same way it may change and you lose that special friendship, that bond, same if you asked her out and you were dating even the relationship may alter it, i have a friend also who is the same as yours and i thought about telling her but in the end what i gain will be worthless because the price is too high, its easy to lose what you have and this person is special to me and i dont wana lose that by jumping into something i know has many ways of failing, i aint making the decision for you i just want you to see what may happen if you its your choice, make the right one, good luck.