I don't have that many friends but the ones I have are great. They all know how much of a dork I am and how annoying I get but they still stick wih me. I can tell them anything and they can tell me anything. I have the BEST friends and I don't know of anyone I would like to replaice them with. I am happy when I am with them. But everywhere else I am quiet and depressed. How can someone with friends like them be depressed 85% of the time? I just don't get it.
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1. its obvious isn't it? When your alone you seen yourself as the dork as you stated but when your with them you dont feel that way, you feel great, happy because people like you for you but away you feel alone and feel like no-oe likes you because no-one is there, thats why your depressed because your friends make you feel special, alone you feel worthless.
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3. When you are with your friends, you are happy but when by yourself you get depressed. A few questions though: 1) Are you really happy when you are with them or are you projecting happiness to fit in with them? In other words, if they are happy, you feel that you must be happy or else they won't hang out with me. 2) If this doesn't apply, is there something about your home life that is making you unhappy there? One possible idea is that with your friends, you can act one way but have to act differently around your parents. Without answers to these questions, it's hard to tell you how to fix it. i would like to help you so write me if you have any answers @ mrbrianmyers@yahoo.com. Good luck
4. I have always been the same way, in the fact that I always find a few really good friends but I don't have very many friends. I think its just that you don't feel comfortable around people that you don't know or don't talk to. Try talking to people more often and see if it helps. You never know until you try it. Hopefully you will only be depressed 80% of the time then 75% and then eventually you hopefully will hardly ever feel depresed.
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