Asked sim q, need more feedback...please tell me what the deal is with this girl friend of mine since we grad?
I was friends w/ this girl for 3 yrs, then after graduation she cuts me off...I find out she got back w/ her ex (I had asked her out several months earlier...we said we'd stay friends)... After a month of trying to contact her she says I was smothering her...how can I smother her...she ignored me! She said she needed a break...it has been 13 weeks. I cant take this waiting crap any more! She wanted to be the 1st to contact me when she was "ready" but she hasnt. Now she has a new Myspace page and hasnt friended me, hasnt contacted me, nothing. what should I do...should I continue to wait, should I contact her myself...everyone told me I did everything for her, was there when she needed a friend and she didnt reciprocate w/me...everyone says I was too good for her but I can let go of her. Maybe that is the best thing to do, but I dont know how & dont think I can. All I know is that I feel sick to my stomach every day she is out there and I dont speak with her & she doesnt contact me.