ok. a girl who pesters me in the past always get me on my nerves. but now, after the pestering subsided, we began to talk, test msg and chat with each other online for about 2-3 hours on average. we'd talk about almost anything and a funny thing happened, i started to like her. and so, this feeling developed into something that most ppl would describe as love. im trying to confess my love to her and i'd do anything to protect her because she's an orphan... the problem is im not quite sure whether she is willing to accept me. no matter the outcome, i'd still protect her.
now i need your advices, should i confess to her now or later?
she has given me a plethora of hints that she 'wants' to be with me. but im not sure. she has given hints such as ..." i will wait for the day you'll sing to me, the day you'll take me out to see the world, the day for us to play in the snow. anyway, i live in a country where there's no snow. haha
she's 14 and im 17. i know. big age gap.
Answers:
1. 6 hours ago
hey. i really care for her. i firmly believe that we should abstain from engaging sex until we are married. im no predator or anything
2. thats quite a gap you got there...and then you will turn 18 and the relationship will be considered rape. good going!
3. this sounds so sweet. *cries* what are you waiting for? She did hint a lot right? four years is not THAT much. when your old 4 years is nothing.
4. Hmm, well I have to say, the best thing you can be to her being an orphan look out for her and draw the line there. She is still a child.
5. no offence but she is a child, i hope you remember that and dont rob her of her childhood.
just tell her how you feel but dont pressure her, again she is a child so sexual advances are a big no no.
6. well with the age gap i would say please let it gooooo.
sounds like she has alot going on and a 17 year old will only cause more problems.SORRY
7. tell her how u feel, bt man that's one large age gap there
8. express your feelings to her. dont waist your time daydreaming and trying to hide your feelings true pretensions. move your *** boy and wish you luck
9. tell her exactly what you just said, that was so sweet!
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