SO. there is this new guy whose different from the rest (SO FAR) and we've been talking and talking and hanging out a little bit just casually. then one night we got really drunk and he hooked up with another girl which im not judging him by because we werent ANYTHING at the time. but i got all emotional and now im afraid he thinks differently of me. IDK i'm just so confused of where we stand b/c i never knew where we stood before we were just starting out. we don't know each other THAT well and i don't want him to be over it already.
we had lunch and it's all good but he doesnt text as much.
am i just overthinking everything or what?!
what should i do to further the whole relationship??
thank you for reading and replying :)
Answers:
1. relax! be yourself,if it works out fine,if not atleast you know.
2. You can assume he was and or is keen on you, but if you're not going to progress things to the next level then he has no reason to stick around.
Be proactive, get in touch with him more, ask him out to some social event. From there, ask him out!
Worst case, he says no! Life goes on... You're better of knowing the answer, than walking through life NOT.
3. well you might be just overthinking, but if it is true then you should just try to be good friends with him. wait and c how he reacts. dont get to desperate and needy but also not so much like a rock. if you have these feelings you might want to confront him about but the side affect might be is dat the whole thing becomes awkward or he can understand and it goes on. just try to stay close until your sure he is free or likes you. hope it helps!
4. stop being a possive person . try to be fair to others
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