There is this guy that is a sophmore and he is going out with this girl (also a sophmore). They have been going out for a while, but have broken up a lot of times. He says that he doesn't really like her that much.
This guy (lets call him Sam), sam, is flirting with this girl (lets call her julia:freshman) a lot over facebook. He even told her that he wanted to make out with her (julia). Julia likes sam a lot, but sam doesn't know it. Julia also thinks that sam likes her too, even though sam is still going out with his sophmore gf.
Does this make Julia a bad person for liking him/flirting with him?
Help!
Answers:
1. I don't think that makes Julia a bad person, she can't help like who she does. As far as the flirting goes, there's nothing really wrong with that either, unless she is a close friend of Sam's current g/f, then that basically goes against the friend code. However; you mentioned that Sam said he doesn't really like his g/f so why is he with her? They both should be with someone who cares about them mutually, it isn't fair to Sam, his g/f or Julia if they're if Sam is with his g/f when he doesn't really like her. He should probably let her go, and if he does break up with her Julia should tell Sam she really likes him and wants to be more than just a cheap make-out buddy, unless of course all Julia wants is to have Sam as a make-out buddy. Long story short, Julia isn't a bad person, but I'd stay out of their problem as much as you can, because someone will end up better hurt, and it's better if it's not you. I hope that helped.
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