A friend of mine is 19, and all of his girlfriends have been like 32 or single moms and stuff.... does this mean he's a bad guy? i always see him hitting on really older women
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1. that means he'll be going out with old granny's soon if he goes out with way older women
2. He goes with them because he likes matured women. But in later years, I don't think he would prefer women much older than himself, for e.g when he is 30, would he go for a 50 year old woman? I don't think so.
3. He's not a bad guy. He just probably likes dating older women. There are many guys out there who date older women because they see a sense of maturity and experience in them that guys don't see in girls of like ages. Let him be with his girlfriend....he probably likes it that she's older, has more experience and is mature. It also seems like he doesn't mind the women being single with kids either.
But, let's just say he doesn't like older women with the attributes I mentioned above....he may be looking for a "sugar mama" who can take care of him, give him money and pay for his bills. I have seen many cases of younger guys dating older women specifically for these reasons. And in return, he gives her sex and satisfaction in bed. But there is no love or intimacy in a relationship like that from his side. I don't know if he takes advantage of older women which is why he is with his 32 year old girlfriend or if he just likes older women.....that's for you to let us know if you would like to add more info.
For the time being, just let him be. And if he is using older women as sugar mamas, then maybe you can set him straight.
4. He is a bad guy. He's flirting with licenced women so no need to worry about parents of his girlfriend and no need to worry about the kids making with her and no need to spend money. This is all he thought.
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