Yeah... I like this boy named Chase... and he's all I want.. but ever since my friend told him I like him, he kind of is avoiding me... is he afraid of me? Does he like me, but is too shy to admit it?
We're going to an Octoberfest on Saturday afternoon, and what do I do, do I act normal or try to flirt?? HELP ME pleaseee
Answers:
1. well, dont be too needy. dont follow him everywhere or force conversation. he is probably needing some time to take this all in. but if he talks to you he talks and if not, then dont force anything. but if he looks into the convo then of course flirt! maybe he does like you after all
2. Be normal and relax into the moment, not knowing your age or what your history is with him its hard to say but there is a better chance that he is shy or not sure what the next step is, its rare that a guy doesn't at least give it a second thought when it comes to dating a girl.
3. if he is avoiding you he's doing it for a reason play it cool don't seem too desperate and obvious hang out but don't stare at him act normal be yourself don't flirt with him he might be expecting it since your friend done babbled and opened her big mouth
4. Just be yourself and do not come on too strong or you could chase away 'Chase'. HE might not know you enough to form an opinion of liking you or not. If you get all flirty with him it might give him an impression that you are just after something else, and he might not be into that.
Give him a chance to know you without the flirting, and perhaps he will show his interest one way or another. Act normal at Octoberfest or it could make things kind of weird for him, and you might end up getting hurt since you seem to like him so much. Play it cool for awhile when you are around him. If he is interested in you he will let you know.
5. Since he already knows that you like him this should make his job easy IF he feels the same way. Dont flirt too hard cause you dont want to make yourself look desparate. So just be nice and have fun like you usually do and if he does not try to persue you than you know that the feeling is not mutual. There is no need in you wanting someone who looks right past you. Be confident and keep your options open
6. If I were you I would act normal. Be yourself, don't even worry about it. Girls flirt naturally when they feel comfortable, you might not even notice you are flirting but guys pick up on the little things. When girls try and flirt they tend to make an idiot's of themselves!!! Be yourself and if he likes you then he likes you and if not there's more fish in the sea.
Also he is likely avoiding you because guys don't always know what to say to the girl after finding out she likes them. Or he might just be afraid of any kind of commitment.
Keep it cool act yourself. If you put o na show its only more work for you and you will ahev to keep the show up on the road!
7. Ok what to do well i dont know if this will help, but k so he might be avoiding you but everytime he looks at you kinda do a model face but dont be to obvious because then he might be like ok weird be yourself
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