Alright a girl im into hangs out with me fairly frequently, and we hang on the couch, and she lays, head on my chest, and we watch TV or movies. After a long night of being very close, massages, hugging, holding etc. I went to give her a kiss and was turned down. About a week later I talked to her and she gave the whole "want to be friends" speech, which I was kinda okay with. After a few days she called, upset and needed someone to talk to, so of course i drove 45min at 11pm to go talk to her. After another night of some serious flirting (she fed me dinner) I went home (no second kiss try) Tonight she picked me up from work and talked to me about all the guys that have hit on her and how many guys want to date her. Have I not made it clear how i feel (yes ive told her) n if not, why is she toying with me?
Answers:
1. shes just playin hard to get man, just keep at it and you will get her sooner or later. dont give up.
2. It seems to me like she sees you as a friend. She doesn't like you in a romantic way, but I see how her actions can be confusing.
I don't think she's trying to mess with you, but she doesn't realize that she's making the situation difficult for you by being touchy.
3. Hmmmm. That's confusing even for me.. And i'm a girl! Not to be mean or anything but she could be using you or playing hard to get. If I were you I would sit her down and talk to her and clear everything out. I believe that getting right to the point is the best thing to do.. No games.
4. To be honest-- coming from a girl, it does seem like she is leading you on a bit unfairly. But that does not mean you should drop her friendship, stick with her-- continue to be supportive and be her friend, don't try and push her into a relationship with you as this could scare her off. Basically keep on doing what you have been doing, and it is fairly likely that she will realise sooner or later what a great guy you are and will consider a relationship with you. But this is fairly important...let her come to you, let her make the first move. In the mean time-- you could test out how jealous she gets by getting a different girlfriend...
5. Honestly, I think that's a good question. Perhaps she doesn't realize that she's so flirty. When I look back it's obvious to me that I've been a big flirt since I was three but I didn't realize it at the time. (I tend to like to laugh at guys jokes even when they aren't all that funny, touch his arm, give him the "look", talk very sweetly to him, etc. And have no idea that I am being flirty.)
Or perhaps she isn't as innocent as I am. In that case she's a horrible friend.
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