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Met someone recently,and he says hes falling for me?

   
can a person 'fall' for another that quick?(6wks) We are both adults,and hes not saying this just so we can have sex.I know that,cuz we already have....

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1. 7 hours ago
hey phil...i never said I didnt feel anything,I def have feelings happening too....

2. 7 hours ago
im just asking opinions here.....thanks for the answers so far...

3. If you have to ask strangers- you have your answer--- RUN

4. Totally. As long as he's not creepy, or his name brings up anything disturbing when you google him, go for it.

5. what the heck is wrong with you. then he's obiously not kidding around if he's already gotten down your pants. gosh why are you even asking.

6. 6 weeks seems reasonable to start liking someone considerably...

7. So youve been seeing him for 6 weeks, had sex with him, and not only do you not feel anything for him, but you cant even believe he feels it for you? Woman, you are COLD.

8. 6 weeks and hes falling for you...best bet is he's actually starting to like you for you and not just the sex...

9. It's definitely rare to find someone that you have such a connection with so quickly but it's not unheard of. Don't fight your feelings. If you think they're true then they probably are. Don't rush into anything major. A true test of whether or not you're going to make it in the long run is to move in together...at some point. It's a great way to find out if it's true love or a fairy tale.

10. then he probabbly does "fall for you", i havent heard very many cases where someone "falls" that fast, but if really loves you ask him, and then if he gives a reasonable answer then i would say yes

11. You can easily fall for someone quickly! but take things slow he may be a nut! call 1800-Dr Laura! she will set you straight

12. Can a person fall in love in 6 weeks? yes, many people say they have in that time or less. The question really is, why do you ask that question? You doubt his sincerety? You have intimacy or trust issues? Hurt before or he doesnt really act like he loves you? The question really is "why do you ask?"

13. A person can fall for someone that quickly but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't be careful. He might want more of what he is already getting (ahem) so it to his advantage to say that he is falling for you. But all relationships are different so only you know for sure what is best for you in this relationship. I think it is always best to take things slowly and really get to know the person before you get serious with them.

14. Well, if you've already had sex, you have a problem. You don't know if he's falling for you, or for the sex. Sex complicates your emotions if you have it before you really love each other for who you are first. You should back-off and get to know each other better.

15. I think, if you're both adults, that you can know if you're "falling for someone" within six weeks. That just means that you "fit," or feel drawn to each other because it is enjoyable and stimulating when you're together. But don't confuse that with long-term combatibility. Just do what feels comfortable to you.

16. A guy can look at you for one second and "fall" for you! Duh!

17. Wait a minute. If you have feelings for him after just six weeks, then why would you be surprised to learn that he feels something for you after the same period of time? All it takes is a little reasoning here, hon...