well, we're going to knotts on saturday. (me, my best friend, and our mutual friend) the problem is, our mutual friend, actually, her mutual friend, is trying to steal my bff away from me! like she talks facing only my bf, and that causes my bf to talk to her.... well, anyway, when we go to knotts, it's only us 3. you need 4 people for most of the rides. like two in the front row, and two in the back. i feel like i'm going to be left out, and won't have anyone to sit next to me on the rides. cause our mutual friend walks in the middle of us, pulling my bff. i hate feeling kinda jealous, but what can i do? i don't think i can talk to either one of them. that would be soooooooo embarrasing and would make me seem snob-ish. thanks :)
Answers:
1. Well.. if u ask me, I'd just bring another friend along.. =]
2. but thats what you must do, you have to talk to them, it isn't your bf's fault you said it urself its a mutual friend so she is your bf's friend aswell as yours, he is obviously going to talk to her, you have to talk to your bf about your worries and tell your friend, if you want to just hug him and kis him in front of her, maybe seeing you do that a few times will help her realise you two are an item and at least tone it down, if you get worried and jelous and dont talk to your bf you might end up pushing him away into her arms and i dont think u want that, trust me talk to him and her, it might do nothing or alot you wont know till u try and you aint going to lose anything by trying are you. Good luck.
3. u should b jealous but when u go there and if she is doing that on the rides then say its my turn to sit with _______ if she doesn't let than u say that's not fair u have been sitting with her on all the rides. if she walks in the middle then go behind them to the other side of your bff hope this works!
4. tell your friend that you feel like that one friend is trying to still her away and if shes kind enough she we join in with you when she sees your feeling lonely
5. tell your friend that you are feeling left out. Also, have a private talk with the mutual friend. tell her that she is hurting your feelings. If that doesn't work, tell a parent or someone else you are comfortable with about the situation and ask for tips. Also, remember this: Don't just have one friend. Make more friends so when your o called bff dumps you, you are not lonely and by yourself.
6. I had the same problem and I suggest that you bring another friend along so that your bf doesn't talk just to that other girl. The person who you bring will ensure that you are included in all the conversations.
7. ok heres the thing. Do you know the saying "three's a crowd"? Well it's the truth especially with girls. For some reason us girls like the one on one....we love the bondage and once someone else steps in the pic we feel almost betrayed in a sence. I know your really in a tough spot...but honestly you should talk to your bff, start by saying, "I know this is going to sound crazy but....." Personally, I would send her a text,email or write her a letter another strong trait us girls have is putting our feelings into words on paper..this way nothing comes out wrong..you can re-read and erase or choose better words to get out how you feel. As far as knotts goes, take along someone else..a boyfriend or a cousin or something...but don't let it be obvious why someone else is coming!
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