My best friend broke up with her boyfriend a few days ago, & all she keeps saying is how much she loves him & blames her self but it wasnt her at all, but besides the point i really just wanna say "its over you need to get over it & start moving on" she basically refuses to like move on.. anyone have a kinder, less attacking form of saying that?
Answers:
1. There is an old sayin "set it free, if comes back it is yours, if it does not, it wasn't meant to be"
2. Unfortunately nothing will help, if you are too strong you could lose her, right now she is in denail without knowing why they split up i cant say much but what i can say is tell her you will be there to talk to her but she should try find someone else who will appreciate her, i know what it's like to want an ex back and you try your hardest and blame yourself its natural and trust me it will pass just give it time and dont force it :)
3. " i know your hurt (her name) but you need to move on if you don't you'll never get the things you want unless you move on. "
i might have said move on i little too many times
4. I would say you need to get your mind OFF of him because if you still love him so much then maybe they should get back together. unless they broke up because of a long distance relationship because thats a whole nother story. Maybe you can introduce her to another guy that you think she might like. Maybe they'll hit it off???? Hope this helps!!!
5. it takes time to heal a wound, ur friend needs to let go . U can help by listening to her, allow her to keep talking about her loss and eventually ir will sink in . Be patient with her. The hurt she feels is real. In time she will realize that there is "life after death" .
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