ok so i just started high school this year, and in 1 of my classes there was this girl...but then i got switched out to a different class bcuz of the class size... then about like 2 weeks later she adds me on msn. we started talking and now were like friends. but when the topic comes up she says she likes this other guy...but when we talk she always says stuff like we never hang:( ....(we only talk online and at school) and when i say stuff like we could go to a hockey game or something ...after saying y i chose that which is usually i like hockey...she always says stuff like o and u dont love me... also in school were very tight.......just wondering if u think she likes me or she just consideres me a good friend
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1. ok, im in 8th grade dude, believe it or not haha, but it seems like u need to outdo this guy that she likes. ive been in this situation before, the girl that i liked went out with 2 guys b4 i could convince her to go out with me, it just takes time and patience, uve got to let her know u like her, b flirty around her and stuff idk but like try to get her to change her mind about u, call her at night and get to know her better, stuff like that, she will come to u eventually haha.
2. from my experience in high school (2 1/2 years) im pretty sure this is a friend deal, but start talking to other girls in school, and she might think of you differently-by the way, at this point in high school, even if youre a little shy, just talk to any girl whos near you (good advice)
3. she likes you!!!!
4. you dont really know what she thinks until yo hang out together and how she acts around you, how flirty she is and what she implys. def try to get some alone time with her and then you'll realy be able to tell. but it sounds like you have a pretty good chance!
good luck=)
5. Good friend
6. hey well there are many different senarios, first she can like you and it works out all right, second she might just want to be good friends another she can be playing tricks different girls have different ways to flirt or play around with a guy. the thing to do is wait it out, dont give up on her but wait dont get ur feelings high or they can be crushed, you just need to take it slowly one step at a time. so far it seems like she can like you or just wants to be really good friends with you. i dont kno the details so i wouldnt be able to help... just watch out and dont rush stay good friends for now until you kno for sure dat you think she likes you. IF you wanna be daring you can ask her out and see the faster way. but this can lead you two to get distant or it might get you heart broken if you are dat much in like of her. just do what your mind says is right and if it doesnt know just take time. thanks.
7. The only way to find this out is to ask her out to a movie or something. Don't take her to a sports game on your first hanging. Then when your out try to pick up on more clues on if she likes you. As far as right now, make sure that you don't fall into the "friend" category. Once there you might as well forget it. Stay close but not too close. Do things that would make her smile. Grow on her. If she does like another guy, try to make her forget about him.
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