There is this girl at my school who I really like but she has a boyfriend. That's not the problem. She is really hot and most likely out of my league. I know there is a 0% chance of us ever going out. None of this is the problem. The problem is, I have trouble expressing how I feel and I want to tell her I like her. However, everytime I try to talk about how I feel, I end up being an asshole (even though I think it is as funny as hell). I am like this no matter what feeling it is. So everytime I think about how I will tell her, I end up thinking of something to say that makes me sound like an @$$ that I am. Normally I would keep this bottled up and safe but I have a new problem: My friend found out. Now he is blackmailing me. I realize the futileness of asking a question online where people who would actually know something about this subject are not located because unlike you they actually have a life with a paramour and friends to share it with. So, what do I do?
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1. omg ur hilarious, idk what you should do, mabye try to both be in a quiet place, and tell her, because would you be an @$$ in front opf ONLY her
2. Stop being a wussy and just tell the girl you like her, flat out. If you can't do it without being an ***, then try to find someway to use that to your advantage. Or.. just write her a damn letter.
3. try talking to her when no one is around remeber to be nice.. good luck
4. 1st i was going to help you, you didnt need to insult anyone( i notice ur on here too)
2nd suck it up be a man and say hey ur kinda cool i like you, but u dont have to say weather u like me or not, cuz i know ur with someone
3rd i dont know what #3 is i just like to have three points
5. Just be yourself... dont worry about what she says if she doesnt like you shes not worth likeing...... if she thinks your nerdy or smething ... shes not worth anything.. i promise... but if she does like you and you still have that being an @ss problem.. just think about how you will express yourself b4 you say something
6. Ok with this you have to becarful with what you say. What you say and how you say it means everything especially when it comes to this situation because you don't have much of a chance atleast thats what you said. Now if you guys are friends then before you tell her ask her if she wants to hang out with you one day. Make sure before you guys go to hang out think about what you are going to tell her and try not be funny be serious and go over it a couple of times. When you see her sit down with her and be serious and open yourself up to her and if she feels the same way then there you go but remember you are still young and you have your whole life ahead of you so don't really worry if she says she doesn't like you in that way. GOOD LUCK!
7. Ok.......are you saying that I don't have a life? neways why waste your feelings on a girl that you think that you don't have a chance with! If you still want to go for her then just think this.....you can either go up to her as confident and true or shy and sweet! It sounds to me like you are sarcastic towards her! when telling a girl that you like her DON'T be sarcastic unless she has a super good sense of humor and is sarcastic herself! But if you aren't confident in yourself, you won't change the way you do things! You already talk to her......but don't pursue her while she has a bf unless you do it in a super sneaky way...........as in looking at her for a couple of seconds a few times while you two are across the room from each other.........but make sure she sees you.......when she does see you look away kinda fast and then look at her in the corner of your eye for a couple seconds. She'll think it's cute! But seriously if you know you don't have a chance with her why go through rejection when you could go for a cute girl that's in your league! Also about your friend..........he's just jealous...and how can he blackmail you?
8. Write a note
9. Blathering aside - - - GET A GRIP ON YOURSELF........ Know this sounds like treacle but it is TRUE _ - _ - _ YOU must be confident in You. You must hammer it into your brain that NO ONE is 'out of your league.' A Girl should consider it a privillege & a honor if YOU desire her. That is the mark of success!! The truly confident know they are 'wanted.' No matter what they feel inside they project Confidence. Look at some of the 'heartthrobs' of the Silver Screen..... Clark Gable with his big ears, Humphrey Bogart name & face, Marlon Brando (before he became Fat he still wasn't gorgeous), Jack Nicholson, I could go on but you get the point the point is that you must believe in yourself and never ever look at a girl and think 'she's out of my league.'
As for your friend, kick & stomp the cr^p out of him/her, blackmail is never right - - - and always, even with friends' be ready with 'dirt' on the. If anyone threatens you with 'dirt' calmly casually make it clear that you will wipe them off the face of the Planet...
Peace......... /// ---------O . u . O ---------- \\\ .....o o o
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