My sister treats me like crap. But what bothers me is that when she's on the phone with her friends or whenever she's talking to someone else besides me, she's so nice and sweet. Her tone is better and she just treats them so good. It makes me sad that she treats her friends better than me. So what can I do to get over this?
Answers:
1. try to ignore her
2. cut her off from contact with you...she'll realize you're not taking it!
3. older sisters are like that. I have a younger bro, you need to understand the fact they think and sort of are older and wiser than you. I don't always act like that with my bro. Only when I'm pissed at him tho. but she shouldn't do it often... even tho we are older sisters, it doesn't give us the right to do it whenever there is no reason too.
4. you don't get over it, never let people treat you badly and accept it, you need to get her to see her faults?talk to her-if possible and let her know how you feel,maybe you are just misunderstanding?but really, don't ever allow people to treat you like crap, you don't deserve it, no-one does, call themon it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, don't be afraid, stand up for yourself!!!!!!!!!
5. Ignore her & avoid her. Stay in your own area. My brother was the same way & also got everything & anything he wanted; it never changed because he was spoiled (I'm well over 50 now). Most cases, siblings get along better that they mature (my brother was an exception).
6. Ignore the silly b*tch and go hang out with your own friends.
Call her the two-headed monster.
Make yourself scarce when she is on the prowl.
Most of the time it is the other way around... they are mean to you in front of their friends and nice to you alone.
Somewhere down the line she got the idea that it was cool to be two-faced. Next time she pulls any of that junk, you tell her off in front of her friends, or tell them something truly embarrassing about her.
Shoot.... my older sister tried to get me to do her homework for her while she flitted about the neighborhood... blonde cheerleader... go figure.
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