WTF? She's been with him for less time than she was with me! And she thought that moving in to an apartment together would be too much of a commitment! What the deuce!?!?!
Answers:
1. She didnt want to commit to you, sorry
2. It sucks but maybe she just wasn't that into you or the whole "new love" thing won her over. A "new love" seems to have crazy powers over a persons mind.
3. Sometimes you just know that things are right.
I was with my last partner for 4.5yrs & I wouldn't commit to buying a house, getting engaged, or even staying together.
I have been with my new partner for six months. We are buying a home, engaged and expecting our first child. Sometimes you just know.
Sorry, she just didn't feel right with you. Don't take it personally ~ find someone who's totally into you. Good luck.
4. Any time someone doesn't want to commit to something they usually aren't serious about the situation. In my own opinion she was dating you until she found someone else that she was interested in or liked you a lot at first and saw someone that she thought she liked more than you, and it kind of seems like she did. I am afraid you have been used and I feel bad for you but it is better that you found out now than after being together in the same place for about 6 months. That would have caused you some real heart aches. Be happy that you know this soon and move on with your life. Dwelling on it is not a good thing for you to do, it won't change any thing and will only make you more miserable than you already are. She just wasn't the one for you but there is someone out there that is , just give it some time, and have some fun doing things with some of your friends you have left in the dust for her.
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