well few months back my dad got into an arguement with his gf. And his gf was upset that he never took her out anywhere. so they agreed on him taking her out alone once a month. Now he does it more frequently. So im mad at him because he never does anything father/son w/ me. a month ago i asked him every weekend can we go fishin be4 the season is over. he always said hes busy. when really he didnt do nothin. should i be mad?im 15 and im not a bad kid i get good grades, avoid drugs.i feel really hurt inside
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1. 7 hours ago
no i mean one weekend hed say im busy so id ask next weekend. same answer. my whole family is messed.. my mom kicked me out of her house when i was 12. i dont talk to her. my sister is friendly w/ my mom but not my dad or me so i dont really see her. i work part time w/ my bro so if it wasnt for the job i wouldnt see him. idk my dad is the only family member i have so i guess im lonley...
2. once a week fishing, isn't that pretty frequent??
I do NOTHING with my dad.
last time father w/ son was about 3 years ago when i was 11. I'm 14 now and we've never done father son things, he's too busy and my mom works from morning till 6
3. i agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... my dad does the same thing with me with baseball. i dont know how to help you since im dealing with this.
im here if you want to talk
4. once a week is alot. but I guess if you are feeling left out, you should tell him that. tell him if he CAN make time for his girlfriend, he SHOULD make time for you.
5. If your dad does not listen to you, write your feeling down on a piece of paper as in a letter and hand it to him. Tell him exactly how you feel this may wake him up. Do not be mad at your dad he is still your dad and that is the only one you
you will always have. Be very straight forward with him, put the monkey on his back not yours.
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