my parents are always picking at me...finding little things wrong. they DONT believe in me and they break promises to me they favor my sister...they make me cry and say quit being a baby or you're going to cry over that...my mom felt bad today and went to my room to talk to me but she took a MEAN approach. i only have 2 more years and i CANT wait to get out..ive tried writing my parents letters they dont help and ive tried talking and they say im being immature or overreacting. im making pretty little signs to tape up all over my room and my parents will see them IF they ever come to my room...like some say true pain is when no one believes in you but you and others LAUGH at your dreams or this is home?!...stuff like that can anybody give me some?? THANKS SO MUCH!
Answers:
1. tell them your problems, if they dont listen, yell at them, then they will have to talk to u! BE IMMATURE!
2. you need to go to them and tell them how you feel. Tell them you feel shunned, and that you feel they don't love you. Cry, let them know the pain they've caused you.
3. It sounds like the ones with issues here are your parents and not you. Parents have a duty to help their children as much as possible, not degrade them. If you have tried to talk and they keep shutting you out, or shutting themselves up to you then you need to get a third party involved in this situation. A guidance counselor, a teacher, or even a principal can help you out in this situation!! Seek out their help!! Maybe some other relatives can also help you in your plight agains your parents!! Remember there are also teen hotlines for when you have these kinds of issues!! Run a search on the internet for a local teen help hotline that you can call!!
My heart goes out to you!! Best of luck! =D
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