Okay it's like this, I am in love with me current partner, I mean not only willing to die for her, but willing to live for her as well; and yet I have feeling for another girl. We've been friends, turned best friends for going on a couple years now. The problem is these new feelings have arisen from both of us, and they aren't completely seated in sexuality or lust either, I genuinely believe her and I could have the meaningful relationship I only tried. I can't give up the one I love and yet I can't ignore these feelings I have for my friend. I need help...
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1. well if you have feelings for another..i don't really think youre in love.
when youre in love ..really in love..you don't have feelings for others.
just my opinion.
2. love hurts
3. you must be an ozzie.. or related to popeye..
4. I think its obvious, this girl your with now you have just stated how much she means to you and you want her yet your feeling love for someone else, maybe this other girl is just a friend and your projecting your feelings, you really like your partner but these feelings are strong and now your happy you see someone else you care about and they are bound to be great if you have become best friends so your confusing emotions, either you like your partner or you dont and if you do then make it work you obvioculy want to and yes you can ignore your other feelings, if you dump the one you love for someone who you "think" it will work with then no offence but your stupid because your happy now, why throw it away to be happy again which in the end may not be the case and you lose 2 people who you liked where as you could have stayed with sum1 who loves u and have a best friend, your lucky mate dont gamble it, you lose more than you gain. just look at yourself in the mirror and say am i smart or stupid.
5. You can't be in love with one girl and have feelings for another.Sounds like you just don't wanna break up the girl your with for someone else, you wanna play it safe.Ask yourself if this other friend is worth it.If u date this friend, things will most likely end badly.You will most likely lose the friendship wit a long drawn out fight and will look back on this and wish you would have kept the great girl you had.
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