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I cant get a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

   
i just cant get a girl. im a freshmen and never had a girlfriend. i see all these people being jerks and all the girls love them. i lost like almost 20 lbs but no girl has ever noticed. they dont talk to me. once i came up to this girl and said hi in a normal, not freaky way and she just looked at me and gave me her back and left.im not that bad looking for being a mexican.i used to be funny last year but when i stoped(i dont know why, it just happened)no one talked to me. please help cause im feelling real bad as time goes by.

Answers:

1. 7 hours ago
oh im in high school

2. Are you a freshman in high school? Or college? I mean, either way, you just need to let it happen. Usually, these things come along when you least expect them to. And, if you are in high school, you're still really young. I wouldn't worry too much. Just go with it.

3. thats because your a freshman girls like older guys so look for a 8th grader

4. I didnt get my first guy till i was 17... dont worry you will find one i promise

5. your obviously going after the wrong girls. they are all different. . . stop going for the hott ones, cause sweetie in highschool looks are pretty much it. not to be mean. go after the one who isn't so superficial.

6. ya you can..... i think youre just not trying hard enough....if you see agirl you like at school talk to her.....its not hard

7. there's nothing wrong with you.Girls are weird, jerks.They pretty much fall for whoever they can't have or someone that it's difficult to have, if that makes sense.I've finally started falling for the right guys.It's taken long enough.Any girl who doesn't like you is the weirdo.

8. maybe there's something about you they don't like. ask yourself these questions! -do you stink? - are you hideous? -am i way shorter than everybody else? -am i was taller than everybody else? -do i look funny? -do i blend in? if you don't blend in or anything... then people don't like you.. get over it!

9. maybe it will help if at school instead of casually talking to a girl, ask her for help with some work or where she got her answer from. don't make them feel that your needy, just keep it friendly. Congrats on the weight lose, I know it's hard, good luck keeping it off!

10. hmmm. possibly, it is not u but the girls in ur class that r messed up-popular girls go for flamboyant boys (if ur not 1 anymore, u dont even exist). but maybe now that ur not funny, ur just normal and it'll take longer. r u a geek, cuz that can DEFFINTELY affect it!

11. Oh, you will find your groove and what do you mean....im not that bad looking for being a mexican.(I have seen pleanty of very hot mexican men) The first step is to love yourself. Start thinking of yourself as the best thing ever. Someone will notice and be like wow, he is so awesome. The next step is, someone most likely has a crush on you. They are too afraid to tell you! Look around, notice any one looking at you, in an ohh laa laaa way? Hope my advise helps you!

12. just try and be yourself

13. Girls can be complete, two faced, back stabbing bit#hes. I know because I am a girl and have experienced other girls that are just like it. You are better not in a relationship. At least your guy friends will not betray you.

14. 7 hours ago
oh im in high school

15. Are you a freshman in high school? Or college? I mean, either way, you just need to let it happen. Usually, these things come along when you least expect them to. And, if you are in high school, you're still really young. I wouldn't worry too much. Just go with it.

16. thats because your a freshman girls like older guys so look for a 8th grader

17. I didnt get my first guy till i was 17... dont worry you will find one i promise

18. your obviously going after the wrong girls. they are all different. . . stop going for the hott ones, cause sweetie in highschool looks are pretty much it. not to be mean. go after the one who isn't so superficial.

19. ya you can..... i think youre just not trying hard enough....if you see agirl you like at school talk to her.....its not hard

20. there's nothing wrong with you.Girls are weird, jerks.They pretty much fall for whoever they can't have or someone that it's difficult to have, if that makes sense.I've finally started falling for the right guys.It's taken long enough.Any girl who doesn't like you is the weirdo.

21. maybe there's something about you they don't like. ask yourself these questions! -do you stink? - are you hideous? -am i way shorter than everybody else? -am i was taller than everybody else? -do i look funny? -do i blend in? if you don't blend in or anything... then people don't like you.. get over it!

22. maybe it will help if at school instead of casually talking to a girl, ask her for help with some work or where she got her answer from. don't make them feel that your needy, just keep it friendly. Congrats on the weight lose, I know it's hard, good luck keeping it off!

23. hmmm. possibly, it is not u but the girls in ur class that r messed up-popular girls go for flamboyant boys (if ur not 1 anymore, u dont even exist). but maybe now that ur not funny, ur just normal and it'll take longer. r u a geek, cuz that can DEFFINTELY affect it!

24. Oh, you will find your groove and what do you mean....im not that bad looking for being a mexican.(I have seen pleanty of very hot mexican men) The first step is to love yourself. Start thinking of yourself as the best thing ever. Someone will notice and be like wow, he is so awesome. The next step is, someone most likely has a crush on you. They are too afraid to tell you! Look around, notice any one looking at you, in an ohh laa laaa way? Hope my advise helps you!

25. just try and be yourself

26. Girls can be complete, two faced, back stabbing bit#hes. I know because I am a girl and have experienced other girls that are just like it. You are better not in a relationship. At least your guy friends will not betray you.