one of my best friends introduced me to her cousin who lives in New York (i live in LA) who liked me for a very long time but i had a boyfriend. me and my boyfriend broke up and then we got together. it was good until he started saying that i wasnt opening up to him and the distance thing and so he broke up with me. Now he calls me everyday saying how much he thinks of me and i was talking to him on messenger and he was asking me questions like "have you ever wanted something so bad but know you cant have to the point that you get frustrated and you feel like if you want to cry" and like "have you ever had something that you wanted to have for the longest time and when you got it you dont know how to keep it" and when we're on the phone he randomly says he misses me and calles me sexy and all that stuff....the thing is i dont know what to think or what to do im so confused about the situation and i don't have any idea what he wants or what he means by what he says...help me!
Answers:
1. It means he really likes you but realizes that the long-distance thing is just too difficult.
Let it go and meet someone you can actually spend time with.
2. well, he still likes you, and won't go out w/ you b-cuz of the distance. although it shouldn't matter in a relationship. he just can't handle it. he likes to think of you. and he likes to talk to you. but obviously going out isn't the best thing rite now!
--just hope he moves closer! Good luck!
3. Try asking him why he's saying those things. He obviously wants to get back together with you, but he might be afraid you will reject him because you two live so far apart or because he broke up with you before.
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