well i have been going out with this wonderful girl claire for 7 weeks on friday. well the problem is i don't feel like we have anything in common necissarliy and i just don't feel a real connection between us, you may say i am just making a reason to break up with her, but no i am actually saying how i feel right now whic doesn't happen to often because i am a pretty quiet person. anywhow. the problem with this is telling her. well i am her first boyfriend, and her parents and friends which are now my friends are absolutely in love with me. even the flippin teachers told her parents what a wonderful guy i am. along with this i am stressed with school, work, clubs, sports, and making a decision for college. what or how do you think i should handle this. and i have come to the conclusion they're is no easy way. in a sense i feel like all of this is my fault. i felt like i've dragged this on and made it hard for both of us. i may have made this sound very dramatic. but this is how i feel
Answers:
1. hey buddy, you're young..if you dont have feelings for her anymore, don't be a prick..don't use her...just tell her how it is..tell her you don't know right now if you want to break up or not....u just don't feel the same connection you felt when you met..see if she feels the same way..you can always ease into a friendship and slow down on the relationship...things went too fast thats all..chill ... 7 weeks is nothin!
2. the best thing for you to do is end it now. If you think about how everyone else is going to feel your only going to prolong your problems and make it harder for when you do break up. Let her go and find someone more compatible. It's not fair for you to be in this type of relationship and your only going to make things harder the longer you keep it going.
3. Well one thing it really shouldn't be a hard issue you guys have only been dating for 7 weeks. This happens sometime where everyone we may encounter may not share the same interest that we may have. Just tell her that you have to slow things down because you have other priorities that may limit you from initiating a fulfilling relationship.
Good luck to you.
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