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A bit of a problem?

   
Well, first of all: I like two guys. Yes, it never really works out, but read on: I've liked this guy for a long time now, but I've brought myself to the realization that he's a bit out of my league, to put it in terms. There's this other guy I like, whose funny, sweet, etc. I'm not a major flirter, so it would be a total step to start. If I pursue a relationship with the nice guy, would it be pointless as long as I still like the other one? Rather confusing, I know. I like both of them equally for different and same reasons, but I've just totally confused myself.

Answers:

1. maybe if go on a date with one you will find other things about them that you didn't know and that will make you like that person even more!

2. You need to go with your gut feeling. If the other guy is out of your leauge, then you know he is most likely off limits. This leads you to the other guy, and I am sure over time you will get to know him and get over the other boy. This may turn into something you will eventually like!

3. listen to ur heart and not the brain ,the brain is good when confusing some1 ^_0

4. ok

5. I kinda know what it's like to like two guys at the same time. I think you should stick to Guy #2. If Guy #1 is unattainable or "out of your league", then you should be able to move on to the next guy. It might be a bit hard to move on from someone you've liked for a long time, but if you end up going out with the guy you think is funny and sweet, then you might just totally forget about the other dude.