Can two people with different religions make a relationship work?!?

1. 7 hours ago
To help you out: I'm a weird combination of agnostic/ buddism/ indian style religion. I'm currently attending a Christian church to learn about that. He's Christian. I really mean no offense to anyone, but I told him I will probably never become Christian after what I've learned so far. I'm still trying to find myself, and he's not really making it easier. The things he claims as immoral, (I think, anyway, because he didn't specify,) are what we've done so far. And I don't know if that includes making out...??? ...and we've gone a little beyond thanks to hormones...but neither of us was emotionally ready for that or anything else. We both believe in waiting until we're married until we have sex, and I think that's one that we actually agree on.

2. true love can surpass every thing

3. yeah why not allot of couples have to agree to disagree on many topics to make things work.

4. yes and no. you are asking for alot of conflicts if you marry, not only that if you both are strong morally and have completely different beliefs it will become a rather large problem.

5. people from different faiths hook up all the time and yes, some couples even marry despite strong opposition from family members

6. If he is saying it is immoral, he thinks you are a bad person. This relationship isn't going to work, he is going to make you feel bad for doing things and blame you for him feeling bad.

7. i had a similar problem with this girl that i used to like. she had a problem because her parents were strict followers of their religion and made it hard for her to date or do anything with guys because in her religion, it was "immoral" i guess to date.

8. Its too hard to have a "good " relationship when you have two waaaay different beliefs. Go towards guys or your own religion or pretty close. You'll only end up getting more hurt.

9. That's almost like dating somebody according to race. Imagine you like somebody, but they refuse to date you because you are a different religion. How would you feel?

10. Yes, but usually one or the other is going to have to compromise. If you're both very stern in your beliefs and neither one is willing to give ground, you'll have problems. It usually works best if one person in the relationship is a little more easygoing, and not so hardcore religious. Of course, if both of you are relaxed about it, even better.

11. It's possable but doubtful . It really depends on how close the two religions are and the love of the people involved

12. Yes if you have tolerance in the relationship for differences. Also - it helps if your parents have tolerance for the two of you too. parents are important in your life as they ground you. They help as babysitters, visit and help you if things get bad. If the love is not without reservation - it can work out. No different if you marry a drunk, you cannot marry someone to convert them and be disappointed they do not change.

13. Religion is a tough area. My husband and I have different beliefs. I think it's a matter of how important they are to you. Are you able to coexist happily and peacefully? Can you agree to disagree? You really have to know yourself here and be able to discuss the issue(s) openly and honestly. It's better to find out now rather than later. It will be much more difficult and more painful then.

14. People with a lot in common have better long term relationships them people with nothing in common. I say follow your bliss.

15. yes and doesn't Jesus forgive

16. The problem can be dealt with easily as long as both sides are willing to compromise. I'll use myself as an example: My wife is a Catholic and I am a Christian. We recently had a daughter as well. This lead to many issues with her side of the family because they believe in infant baptisms where on my side we don't. We came to the agreement that we would not force any religion on our daughter. We will let her know God exists but that different doctrines exist as well. In the end, when she is old enough, she can make her OWN decision. Basically, just try to talk things out. Find out what it is that he thinks is "immoral" because it may not be immoral to you. Try to strike a balance as best as possible. If he is not willing to compromise then you may be better off leaving the relationship and continuing with your search elsewhere. Best of luck!! =D

17. The fact that your fundamental beliefs are different is a very hard hurdle to overcome. The fact that you call him an idiot for his beliefs is nearly impossible to overcome. There's a lack of respect and the relationship won't work. Move on...

18. well in my point of view no because you might start arguing about different things. For example I'm a atheist and I will never date a hard core religious person, i just try to date people like me it just bored's the hell out of me when people talk about their religion

19. i think it an depending how important religion is to both of you, and how much you really do love each-other?real love really does break all bounds?

20. Well what religon are you two? It would be easier to understand the situation if you do. But what it sounds like to me is that you two can't get along due to beliefs and such that you two feel very strongly about. There is no way to change a person's mind who believe's so inently to something. No matter how hard you try he is probally going to still believe what he does. I too have strong personal beliefs and I find it easier to be with someone who believes the same things as me. Plus it helps me not go against what I truely believe.

21. You can absolutely make a relationship work. For example my girl friend is a religion and I'm one and we are totally doing great! and we have been going out for 8 months. You just have to let the guys know ahead of time almost like setting ground rules but not quite.And remember you also have to break some rules because if you don't then your chances will go to a minimum and that will not benefit you at all.

22. It depends on how anal the individuals are about their religion. I'm of the opinion that I will not let it take over my life. It is something personal, and as long as I know I'M living right I will not try to force my beliefs on others. To me, you would qualify as "anal" (I'm very sorry to offend) because you said you dumped your first boyfriend because he did not understand your beliefs. Now maybe there's way more to it than what you typed in those words. But if someone literally does dump somone simply because the partner didn't understand their religion, that seems like it's taking it too far to me. If a Republican and Democrat can be married to each other and make it work, I would think that a Catholic and a Jew would be able to iron our their differences. :-)...

23. If he bones you and then tells you that it's immoral then you should get rid of him. The only way it would work is if you got married which would mean one of you would have to change religion.

24. Yes, if you both respect each other and have understanding about your beliefs without being adamant about changing the others mind about their religion you should be fine.

25. Religion is a very touchy subject with couples anyway, it is hard enough with the day to day stress but if you are a spiritual person you should look for someone who shares the same beliefs and ideas as you. They don't necessarily have to have all of the same beliefs and convictions.You two should compliment and support each other not look down on or pass judgement on each other becuase you have different views. If morality is the issue for either of the two of you talk about it and what you guys need to decide to make things work so that you are in harmony with your beliefs. It's hard I know but well worth the effort especially if it is a good guy.

26. Yes definitely Andra once u both know that you are inlove it wil work you just have to respect each others belief and never let others around you dictate to you that people of the same religion can only getting along in relationships in fact all of my family are of different religions and cultures and even i was born from parents of different religions and my parents have been married for 42 yrs so love is the key dear ...

27. This probably one of the most crucial issues in a relationship. If both are deeply committed to their individual religion then it can be very difficult to make the relationship work. If for no other reason than because there will often be different beliefs about a number of issues. Not the least of which is how/what the children will be taught. However, if neither person is particularly committed to their faith, then the relationship might have a better chance. I am an atheist and I used to be married to a woman who was Christian. Over time it became a major problem because I tried to give her religion a chance but wasn't able to do so. After a while she became deeply upset because I wasn't willing to go to church with her anymore. And it also became a big problem because I didn't want our children indoctrinated with any religious beliefs before they were old enough to decide for themselves. This is one of the main reasons we are now divorced. If two people of different faiths are committed to making a relationship work and they can find a way for both to practice their faith then it can work out. But most of the time it's not going to be easy and it's often a recipe for failure.

28. it can work but......is harder than a regular relationship because somethings are going to be offensive to one of you and is up to you guys....but you dont need to change your persona to be love by someone