My Boyfriend's Mom Thinks I am a Whore, what should I do?

1. 7 hours ago
Here's The Story: My boyfriend and a few of my friends were going to go to the mall and just hang out. Well my boyfriend couldn't come with us for some strange reason... Anyways we ran wild (exaggeration) through the mall and soon we ended up at this Halloween shop where I tried on this dorky, whore-like costume as a dare. The next day we were starting to feel bad for going without him so I called him to make sure everything was alright. He told me that she only reason he wasn't able to go was because his mom thought I was a party girl. I thought it was pretty stupid since she hasn't even met me in real life. Plus I'm one of the most down to earth people ever. Well yesterday, we gave him the pic that we took of me in that costume. His mom found it and now thinks I'm a whore! It was just a joke and my friends thought it would make him happy. So now I'm depressed because I really don't want her to judge me and to know the real me. Not just some stupid pic. What should I do?

2. don't care what she thinks

3. No one will ever be good enough for her little baby. Don't worry about mom. You're not with her.

4. thjaht sucks. just pretend like you dont know that she thinks you are a whore and go over there and just be yourself and let her get to know YOU.

5. tsk. dont worry, if he loves you enough, his mom doesnt get a say in your relationship

6. dont worry. some moms are just overprotective of their sons. she probably just doesnt like the fact that her son has a girlfriend so she is taking it out on you. if you change who you are or let it affect your relationship, your just giving her what she wants.

7. Wow you got yourself into a mess. I know that my advice wont be great for your ego but it works Suck up to his mom (big time) like -go to his house to actually study -cook food for him -etc. -if all end fails invite him to church (that will definitely work)

8. If she doesnt know you, than the logical thing to do would be to introduce yourself eh? If you dont want her to think you're a whore, show her!Pay a visit to their house and Introduce yourself, have a talk, play a board game, WhatEver. If by the time she gets to know you she still thinks your a whore, than shes either wrong OR you actually are one.

9. I don't know your age but his mom clearly controls him. Find someone else until he grows up.

10. Moms will assume things like that. (i know this) so of you wanna build a good relationship with her. Have some lunch with her and talk. Im sure she'll undertsand once she see's your personality.

11. Wear very modest clothing & invite her to dinner with you. Act very lady-like & show her your true self. Discuss the incident with her & let her know that was a one-time thing. Ask her to give you a chance to show you are a good girlfriend for her son. Go to church with them, or invite them to your church, if you or they go.

12. just tell your mom the story....and your moms boyfriend maybe he thought that you were TOTALLY degrading yourself by putting on that dress maybe he thought it was a real one!

13. tell her the situation..........i agree with the second guy that answered

14. I think I agree with the boys mom ... MOMS always have good judgement. As a parent myself I can smell a WHORE like a smelly fart in a crowded church...... Keep your legs together and get to know his mom better

15. what i would do.. 1. meet mom 2. take some cute pics and let mom see (ie. you doing something dumb like getting food on your face, or ice skating and falling) 3. then mabey don't do things like try on crazy dresses and make his mom think your a party girl until she thinks otherwise

16. Who really cares what she thinks he is more then likley a momma's boy and his momma thinks noone is good enough for her son lol it happens if she is judging u ova a outfit u tried on and have a pic of then she will have more things to worry about when he son brings home a really big whore and well known whore lol just brush it off. Most mom's dont like the girls there son are dating!! IT HAPPENS U CANT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY!!

17. don't care what his mom thinks if he dosen't think that you are a whore than thats all that matters he he really likes you/loves you than he should stick up for you to his mom

18. fu_ _ her in her neck.

19. it shouldnt matter what his mom thinks of you!! WHo CARES!! But if your boyfriend loves you,.. Then he will ask his mother for a little more respect, but if he doent do it then he really doesn love you !! Move ALONG!! Trust Me, My mother in law though the same thing about me, just because I wore cute and sexy clothing.... I married my husband in 1999 and it wasnt till 2004 that she actually started to talk to me..... Plus I really didnt want to waist my time thinking about her!! So I let it be... and she came up to me to apologize!

20. There isn't much you can do, except act like a good person, and not give her any reason to think you are not a nice person. You can explain that you where joking, and that is what halloween is all about, to put on costumes and look like somebody else. Just because you look like a turtle, doesn't mean you turn into one. She'll get over it in time, just be nice.

21. if it was me i would tell the boyfriends mom to sit and chat with me explain to her it was only joke,once she talks with you she will realize that you are a down to earth person tell her how you feel about her son almost every mom thinks that no woman is good enough for her son

22. Realize that your b/f is who u want to spend time with and whom u love, not his mother. Even though she may have a slightly tarnished image of you, you have a chance to polish off that image in time. As long as he thinks highly of you, then his mother will either have to dislike you both or learn to accept you as a couple, which i bet she will in time as long as you can prove to her you are mature in her eyes.

23. Obviously this upsets you a lot and rightfully so. I get the feeling that you're not simply willing to let it go and pretend like it doesn't bother you. Clearly, what she thinks IS important to you and there is nothing wrong with that. A lot of relationships fail to work because most women don't understand that if you marry a man you marry his mother too, in most instances. You apparently don't know this woman any better than she knows you. That in itself can't be a good thing. I know it's a little risky and it will take a lot of guts but if I were you, I would go straight to the source. Maybe both of you are misunderstanding one another? Be honest.. ask her flat out. Just be tactful about it and tell her you want her to know she can always come to you if she has ANY questions about such as this. You may just gain yourself a friend for trying to set the record straight.

24. Honey, if you haven't met his mom by now then he is most probably lying and has another girlfriend. Sounds like you are the other woman to me, dump him and find someone that will be honest with you.