I told him that i feel complete nothingness whenever we do it but since i love him so much i don't mind. He got so mad and he's not talking to me. It's been 9 days and hes not answering my calls or anything. How can i make this better. I really do love him and I want to make this work...... Please help me
Answers:
1. 7 hours ago
He was my first, I was a virgin when i met him.. I'm glad he was my first because i love him soooo much, I just wihsh i could feel him...Wev'e been doing it for a year and 1 month and i felt nothing..I had to tell him... I love him soooo much!!!!!!!!!!
2. really? my gf told me that once and it turned me on even more... i have no clue. sorry. Oh! nvm. i mis read somthing... ummm nvm. thats NOT a turn on. but i still dont know. sorry again.
3. You basically told him he has a small penis.
4. Telling him that he is completely inadequate sexually is huge. Go date someone else and remind yourself that it's not a contest.
5. He's just very hurt in his ego. A male and the size of thier penis and their performance is something that really matters to them.
so the only thing you can do is wait till he comes around. But if he is still acting like this a while from now.... then maybe he should just be left alone for good. You said you love him so thats all that should matter.
6. I hate to say it, but it all depends on whether he's confident enough in himself to try fix the problem, I don't think there's anything you can do about it.
7. whats wrong with him? 9 days!? dont be despertate calling him. he'll come around. i guess guys are very sensative about that stuff, but he seems kinof immature.
8. Just fake it.Or stop having sex for a long time.
9. you have hurt his feelings real bad .i would just go to see him and talk to him .
10. Damn. You just bruised that man's ego. I'm not sure there is a way to make that better. I mean that's a complete insult to his manhood. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot? The reason you have not heard from him is because he's hurt, very hurt, I would give him space and wait for him to come to you(if that happens).
Stay Strong.
Stay Positive.
11. Find a new well hung boyfriend and your problems are over. Do some kegle exercises, you better tighten up girl.
12. this could be a really long answer so therefore i will only say "WOW" .
13. a bj or anal
14. well due to the fact that all boys think about their penis size a lot, when they hear from their lover that it is small, its kind of a let down. but just tell him your sorry with a sexual surprise
15. Well put yourself in his shoes........You took the manhood right out of him and just basically told him he is not big enough to satisfy you....But on the other hand you were honest with him from the start and now you must come together and work it out and find a way to get the feeling back inside of you. Your probably real real wet inside so your not feeling him that natural.
16. well you pretty much insulted the crap outta him so you're gonna have to work hard to win him back. he probably feels like he's not good enough for you.
17. This will bother u eventually trust me. You need a man that can give u pleasure otherwise u will be un-happy w/your sexual life and end up probably cheating on him anyways since your not satisfied. Love isn't everything. U will find someone else that will make u feel good down there and that u love later in life I'm sure. If this guy isn't calling u after u had sex then that is messed up and u need to find someone else.
18. i suggest u try and approach ur bf, eg go to his house, workplace etc, say ur sorry and make it to him and if it works, the next time u have sex, try other positions. go buy a karma sutra book, there are heaps of different positions in it. try and find a position that works for the both of you. relationships are all about honesty, love, communication and compromise.
19. Look for a bigger duk baby .stop wasting your time an life.you have done the right thing for saying the truth how you feel.its up to him to understand you have a right to life .
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