and this guy i just met three weeks ago has started changing my outlook a little...he makes me happy and has started making me realize that i need to slow down and enjoy life a lot more...
my question is...do i block my friend out of my life to not be influenced by her anymore? that can be hard though since she's been my friend for so long and i just met this guy, but he makes me feel better
Answers:
1. if she bugs you, cut her loose.
2. Dont completly block her out. But a little distance wouldnt kill either of you, so thats my suggestition!
3. Surround yourself with people who are positive and supportive. Be totally honest with yourself and cut loose those that hold you back from your goals.
4. Definitley BLOCK that b*tch out! Usually females try to put each other down to make themselves look good. It doesn't sound like she's ur best friend if she put you down.
5. distance. dont let her negativity ruin your life, you have your own. and if she acts like a jerk about it, then she's not your friend.
6. Ugh God been there done that. Same situation. You need to surround yourself by happy people that make you feel optimistic and positive in the right ways - ways that feel right to you.
You probably cant completely block her from your life, but if she is that pessimistic, you may benefit from just seeing her when you can (for lack of a better phrase) stand to put up with her negativity. It can be possible to find some sort of balance.
Good luck!
7. If she's pessimistic and negative, she may be depressed. Can you get her to take one of the on-line depression quizzes?
Debbie
8. this guy can be useful to get your friend in a better state of mind too
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