so...me and my bf were having some problems and i broke up with him like 3days ago....so...he came over today...and then like....1 thing led to another and we ended up having sex((my 1st time..we did use a condom)).....so...does this mean we are back together?..im 14 and he is 16(17 l8r this month) and we were 2gether for 2 years...so does this mean we are back together....or was it just sex?
Answers:
1. No one knows but the two of you. What you really need to do is just talk about what you want out of this.
2. you should be back together, and probably should talk about it tomorrow, but he prob just used you, like most guys will do all your life now, have fun
3. i think it was just sex.
4. you were just sex
too bad you didnt wait...
5. u shouldnt have had sex but whats done is done. glad u used a condom.................
no ur not back together, sorry
6. i would hope that you were back together. thats shitty if he just de-virginized you and isnt going to be with you anymore. I would think that that would mean something.
7. Okay, first of all, the age difference is not large, but definitely creepy. I would not go back out with him, because it's obvious that he's interested in one thing: and he got it. Don't hurt yourself over this guy.
8. seems like make up sex to me. but u should ask him to make sure
9. What has this world come to?...
10. at 14 i hope its your first and l;ast time until you are a bit older.tell him to get someone his own age and dont give up something that should be kept till your older and understand sex more.
11. Tricky subject. If you are that confused talk it over with him.
12. it was just sex unless you or he said something
13. ASK HIM.?
14. IT IS NO LOVE AT ALLAND YOU SHOULD NOT BE HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU MAY HAVE A BABY
15. ok you just shouldnt have done anything i dont think ur bake 2 gether
16. You lost your virginity with someone you aren't even sure you're with? It's sad for you, you're just a baby yet you're letting a boy, who is slightly too old to be doing this with a 14 year old, take advantage of you. If you're not back together, you have to walk away from this, he's not worth your time.
And just to let you know, sex with a 14 year old is an arrestable offence, he could go to prison for statutory rape.
17. what..........14 <<why arent you thinking oh ya youll probley get plenty calls but not from him .Hes probley told half the school before you got your clothes back on ,sorry but it wont work if he knew it was your first time he'll only be around to tell you what you want to hear when he wants to again, a guy like that isnt worth it and you can bet everyone will know what kind of girl you are ,pray for forgiveness and hope this jerk doent come back for more,, hate to say it but he just made you the joke of the school he has no respect for you girl........
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