Falling in Love?

1. And by me I mean you're a goddamn douchebag.

2. It really depends on how you take it when love fades...

3. OF corse i do-- I believe you can love two people at the same time too.

4. I only think it's possible if their husband/wife died a long time ago so they want to re-marry or if they had been abused by their former partner.

5. sometimes a person fall in love many times but i know a person can find a true love and it can be found if you found your heart beating much with that person!!!!!!

6. Falling in love is not so easy and we don't know whom to give our love and when it will be. It just come unknowingly and when we found out were in love. Broke heart can mend sooner or later it depends on the damage but still can get over it in time. With all this matter we knew we are human and ready to embark what life aheads of us.

7. I think its possible to love more than one person in your life. Yeah you will have those 2 or 3 months relationships that you think your falling in love an than once its over you get over. Ones that last a yr or more an if you made all these plans an you are in love I think it means so much more. I know I've been in love twice in my life. I'll never forget them an I'll never stop loving them, an who knows maybe I'll never find someone again, or maybe that prince charming is just lost an on his way lol!! About getting you heart broken..I think depending on the situation (like mine) it will take a really really long time. I am a different person since I was crushed to pieces. My millions of pieces still can love something but its never whole until what your looking for is proven. In my case something I'm looking for is trust..my heart will never trust until someone can truely show me it. Basically everything just comes down to time..everything takes time....

8. Hmm... For me, I think people can fall in love more than once in their lives. BUT I hear elder widow(ers) that talk about their spouse and how much they loved them, never had another close relationship. Makes me wonder if there really is only ONE love. I have fallen in love more than once. I am 35 years old now and just married, for the first time, a few weeks ago. The other time or times I felt I was in love, I attribute to it them satisfying something at that point in my life. I was younger. Dumber. Less baggage and life experiences to measure against... therefore lesser expectations. When I think of those men now, I wonder what it would be like if I married them, but I know they would not be my choice today if I had met them. My needs and goals are higher and different. A broken heart is a broken heart. I have strong moral values and am a strong person. There are a few things that I absolutely will not tolerate or consider mending. (Cheating, Drug abuse, and violence.) Might be others, but these are my top of my list. Other things, like having a bad spending habit that keeps us in debt is a big one for me right now, but I am getting a handle on it and it is a workable issue.

9. i have fallen in love twice and i think i will always have the first guy in my heart till the day i die. Heartbreak is the worst pain U will ever feel !! so many emotions Hate ,Love,Sadness,anger,Desperatio... people have died of a broken heart before..... Now i need a hug ;(

10. i think that it is just infatuation and it wears off and this is why because when it is love you want to be around them all the time you cant stand the thought of losing them when you think that you think that you are in love it weas off a nd you find something wrong with that person and it never works i think that there is only one true love out there for you

11. yes of course you can always full in love twice as long as you allow yourself to let go of the past or the previous love of your life,,,,but of course the stage & intensity is not the same since everyone of us is unique. To fall in love with somebody counts on the aspect of an individual,,,,,,,so if you fall in love to another individual its another level since it another person. Dont make comparison.......You are unique..everybody is unique in all lifes aspect in loving,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

12. Love is the most valuable thing God has ever given this world. Its the one thing that will NEVER run out. Its one of those rare miracles in life........you can always make more when you need it. To say someone can not fall in love more than once is like saying parents can never love the second child as much as they loved the first. I had my first love when I was 15. I was blinded by my love for him and wasn't able to see him for the horrid person he really was and it took over a year to see the real him and when I did I was crushed. I was hurt in a way I could have never imagined. I was sure I'd NEVER love again. About a year and a half later I met a man who was everything I thought I could ever want and we got engaged. I went away for 5mths for Army training and he had an affair with my then best friend. Again my life was over and I was ready to move to a commune............and then I met Ryan. Ryan was a nice guy and we became fast friends. One night I told him I had given up on love and just was going to accept my destiny to be the strange cat lady who lives alone at the end of the block wiht the unmowed lawn. He grabbed me by the shoulders and kissed me. Six months later we were married and now we've been married 2 1/2 years and have our first tricycle-motor. Its true that love changes with time but its up to each of us on how it changes. We can love someone with everything we have and slowly settle into knowing we love them and not saying it and we take the knowledge for granted and just assume the other person knows we love them and at some point that light starts to fade and as time goes on it fades until we think it's been extinguished. In today's society of wanting things handed to us instead of working for them this is the primary reason divorce rates are so high. On the other hand if you work hard at it that light may flicker but it will never fade. And should you find that your relationship's light has faded it can be brought back to full strength if you really want it to. With alot of communication and elbow grease you can rebuild any relationship. It may seem cliche but saying I LOVE YOU(and trully meaning it) can move mountains IF YOU LET IT.

13. Well I used to be the most romantic girl of all times and believed in fairy tales that there is only one soul mate in your life.... However thanks god through my life I'm changing and realizing that it isn't suppose to be like that. You see everything is in how much you are capable to love...when you know how to love...you recognize the good things that person have...and you appreciate them more than the negative sides... I agree that there are some specific guys or girls that we fall in love though...look at your past and you will find a bunch of similarities with all your partners...why is that...because we have attraction factor that we attract always the same people or more precisely the same type. So yes you can fall in love more than once...cos people of your type in the whole world might be 1.000 , divide them 50% of opposite sex, and 25% are taken...here you go you have 250 people that are your type waiting for you but can't seem to find you :):) Interesting isnt it...:)

14. anythings possible.