Cute soccer player, kind of quiet but she opens up sometimes. She hangs out with a lot of people i don't know but we talk. She also doesn't do dances, period. I've liked her forever but i can't figure out how to ask her out alone and what to do with her. She doesn't really like movies either. Don't tell me how to ask her cause i know how. Just what to do and how to make sure she knows its a date, not an invite your girlfriends thing.
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1. well the message is up to you to telegraph. girls like flowers, a nice quiet dinner, and someplace romantic to talk. dont go cray on any area, but some nice roses, an average priced dinner ( for god's sake if she offers to pay, let her pay but kindly express your duress about it, just to let her know you are willing to pay and you arent a chump). a walk on a pier, a local aquarium, or even better a sporting event if she's up to it is good. never never never ask her what she wants to do. just be spontaneous. and for you own sanity, be yourself, not the prepackaged date women hate. good luck
2. If one of your friends is dating one of HER friends....you could go on a double date. They're the best cause the girls talk to each other if you ever run out of ideas. Its always cool when you're with friends. Lol
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