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This is for the girls: what do you find attractive in men?

   
is it the abs? or what is it?? whatever it is im going to do it..lol

Answers:

1. They seem to like personality.

2. there's not really something you can change that will automatically make you hot no matter how unattractive you are to begin with. just take good care of yourself and you'll be off to a good start.

3. hmmmm... I like guys that are: Funny Polite hot in looks... hmmm. i do like muscular guys, but "slim".

4. god-fearing, smart and have sense of humor......

5. A great smile, mostly. I always melt for smiles. Other than that, a good humor, good manners, and good physique.

6. try putting a potatoe inside your pants to enhance the look...if that doesn't work you can always make french fries.

7. guys w/ a shag haircut R freakin hot !

8. mmm... i love the abs!!! when they smell super good thats a big turn on!!! but i would never date a jerk!!! personality counts the most!!!the rest r just extras!!!

9. men who have some knowledge. men who are are caring. like a man who remembers what you told them the first time u met. men who can make u laugh. men who can keep an INTERESTING conversation. definitely men who are in shape and care about life and how they live it...PLUS men who like your family and pet :)

10. confidence (not arrogance) & a good personality

11. his laugh, his eyes, his bodyy ;] , his hair juss himself as a person <3

12. i love guys with muscles and a 6 pack. i loveee big muscular arms!! but i gotta have a guy with personaliy too.

13. i personally like guys with nice smile , and lovely eyes, and that hes smart, and funny at the same time.

14. personality, a strong personality

15. Attractive is not a look, it's a behavior. Humor is attractive, understanding is attractive, being a gentleman is attractive. Having a good ear is attractive. There are lots of things that last forever, but not looks or abs.

16. well it the face eyes and abbs and deffinatly HAIR

17. for me, i like a man who's himself, not someone else. i like a man who is consistent, that is i like a man who treats me the same no matter who we are with. i like a man who is kind of goofy but that can also be serious when seriousness is needed. i like my man to be willing to do anything to get my attention but who will do it without making himself look like a jerk. i like a man with good morals, who wants to spend time with me that actually means something, not just getting me into bed. i do like men with large muscles but only because i like to feel more petite than i already am but i also like men who aren't that way too. i like a man who is interested in things i like and do. i like men who care about me. (i don't really care about abs that much although it is a plus) hope this helps but honestly you shouldn't try to change your self. i'm sure you're perfect just the way you are :)

18. i like a manly man. a guy who seems confident and laid back, cuz hes a MAN. im talkin broad shoulders, sincere smile, sometimes the rough look can really do it for me.. it really depends on what u look like to decide if you should go for the scruffy look or clean cut.

19. . He has: "that look" when he looks me straight in the eyes, the kind, warm smile, the i-don't-need-to-wear-flashy- things- for-you-to-like-me style, and he has to look great in cardigans ;) .

20. i like guys i can have a teasing game with... i like when they chase after you but arent all over you and needy... just to play the game alittle bit and always be intersted in them... it also helps if you have a good smile and are a witty charming guy

21. I love guys with abs, but they can't be body building muscular. Also, guy's with longer hair always catch my eye because it kind of hides their face, which is usually perfect, and it draws girls in because they are curious about what is behind the hair. I like guys that have a good sense of style, like polos, and knows how to dress themselves. The guy has to have a good head on his shoulders, intelligent, ambitious, and funny. Don't be too cocky or it will turn some girls away. I absolutely love foreign guys because their accents make them extremely sexy and they love American girls. Tall, dark, and handsome pretty much to summarizes it.

22. Guys who are: Nice, Themselves, Athletic (likes to play sports), guys who like to hang out with their friends and guys who like to have a good time and just have fun..P.s as long as they are nice and are sencitive then I could care less about their looks..because looks arent everything!!

23. well its not just about the abs or a cute face it also takes in personality,sense of humour,selfless toward gf,voice should be intelligent n above all loving