I have had maybe 17 encounters so far , but very few actual relationships.
what bout you?
why you think?
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
I am 31 btw
2. 8 hours ago
How old are you?
3. 8 hours ago
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I CANT HAVE A REAL GIRLFRIEND.
I JUST SEEM TO ALWAYS CLING ON TOO MUCH AND "WEIRD THEM OUT"
4. 8 hours ago
HOW DO SO MANY GIRLS SEEM SO SHALLOW THOUGH?
SEEMS LIKE THEY ARE JUST SO LIGHT HEADED.
5. go for 17 A NIGHT
that works for me
then you dont get so attached until you really are ready
6. Hi Answer 2 Q 4 me 2 know lol ;-)
Relax just be your self lol
7. Sorry, had to lol at "light headed." You meant air-headed. I've had a few relationships, but most weren't serious until I met my husband. We clicked emotionally, physically, and intellectually. It wasn't much effort to be together, and we enjoyed each other's company. I'm 33, he's 39. We had and have mutual friends, and were friends to each other first, which gave us a great foundation. Don't try so hard, dude. It's not attractive on either gender to be overly needy.
8. Very few but I guess it's cos I haven't found the right one yet. Not all girls are shallow, btw.
9. Numbers don't prove a thing.
10. I have had my share of encounters but no real relationship or anything that was even close to a relationship.
Maybe you should try to slowly bring in your feelings after a good encounter with a woman. No one likes being overwhelmed with emotions.
I have problems sharing my emotions ... maybe its the opposite thing ... maybe its why I dont want a relationship. But I am only 18.
11. Clinging too much scares people because it's a sign of posseviveness, and this can easily escalate into insane jealousy.
17 partners (I'm assuming these were sexual partners) is kind of a lot. I had about 40, and learned that I was afraid of intimacy (lots of people are). Being afraid of intimacy doesn't make a person shallow, just anxious. Calling people shallow is a value judgment. Try to avoid value judgments by putting yourself in the other person's shoes.
12. 8 hours ago
I am 31 btw
13. 8 hours ago
How old are you?
14. 8 hours ago
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I CANT HAVE A REAL GIRLFRIEND.
I JUST SEEM TO ALWAYS CLING ON TOO MUCH AND "WEIRD THEM OUT"
15. 8 hours ago
HOW DO SO MANY GIRLS SEEM SO SHALLOW THOUGH?
SEEMS LIKE THEY ARE JUST SO LIGHT HEADED.
16. go for 17 A NIGHT
that works for me
then you dont get so attached until you really are ready
17. Hi Answer 2 Q 4 me 2 know lol ;-)
Relax just be your self lol
18. Sorry, had to lol at "light headed." You meant air-headed. I've had a few relationships, but most weren't serious until I met my husband. We clicked emotionally, physically, and intellectually. It wasn't much effort to be together, and we enjoyed each other's company. I'm 33, he's 39. We had and have mutual friends, and were friends to each other first, which gave us a great foundation. Don't try so hard, dude. It's not attractive on either gender to be overly needy.
19. Very few but I guess it's cos I haven't found the right one yet. Not all girls are shallow, btw.
20. Numbers don't prove a thing.
21. I have had my share of encounters but no real relationship or anything that was even close to a relationship.
Maybe you should try to slowly bring in your feelings after a good encounter with a woman. No one likes being overwhelmed with emotions.
I have problems sharing my emotions ... maybe its the opposite thing ... maybe its why I dont want a relationship. But I am only 18.
22. Clinging too much scares people because it's a sign of posseviveness, and this can easily escalate into insane jealousy.
17 partners (I'm assuming these were sexual partners) is kind of a lot. I had about 40, and learned that I was afraid of intimacy (lots of people are). Being afraid of intimacy doesn't make a person shallow, just anxious. Calling people shallow is a value judgment. Try to avoid value judgments by putting yourself in the other person's shoes.
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