ok, so iv been dating this guy in my class for over as year, (dan) and i have a best freind, no like hes my number one best friend. (Austin) somtimes i think i have feelings for him, but hes dating someone else, im really confused about my feelings right now, plz help! by the way i'm 13
Answers:
1. Go 4 your best friend just tell him "I really like you please don't tell anyone but some time we should go out" or something cute but not too realistic.
2. well you will have a lot of loves in your life and since he likes your friend too then he is not your forever love
3. You are thirteen, if you weren't confused then you wouldn't be normal! I know that some girls your age seem to be pretty sure of themselves, but most of them are simply faking it. If you are happy with your boyfriend then don't mess it up for the sake of what is probably nothing more than a stray hormonal reaction to a boy you feel comfortable and familiar with..there is even a name for this "propinquity"... and if that is all it is then it will go away in time.
4. The best thing to do would be work out whether your feelings towards Austin are because he's got someone and is unavailable, or whether the feelings are genuine. It's not fair to keep your boyfriend if you are having doubts about your feelings.
5. at 13 you got a bunch a hormones going through u, id give it a few years before you date at all, cuz it can get really confusing, just try being friends with both of them for a while
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