do u think a kid could actually hate their parents or one of them? or do u think they can only dislike them cause deep down they love them even though they are mad?
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1. 1 hour ago
my bf says he hates his dad all the time.. but i say no u dislike him cause i know deep down he loves his dad he's just mad.
2. It really depends on the situation and the people involved. I am sure that a child COULD come to hate the parent. Constant abuse - verbal, physical or sexual, could do it. So could a feeling of abandonment, especially if the parent kept in touch with only another sibling, or went on to have another family which they treated far better.
While in an ideal world there would be no reason for a child to hate the parent, sadly for many children this world is far from ideal.
3. I think it's just dislike, because I don't think you'd be able to go to the point where you hate your parents, you know?
Unless they abuse you to the point where it's over the limit, I guess you couldn't possibly hate your parents.
But like the person said below, I guess it depends on the situation.
4. As much as we try to escape this cold, hard fact, we are programmed by our parents (or legal guardians). They influence us to become who we are more than anybody else. So, yes, absolutely, it's possible for a child to actually hate their parents. Children's emotions are completely pure, but they are also flighty--one minute they hate their parents, with true despite, but then next minute, the parent could be their hero. Ah, to be a child again!
5. Sometimes Hate is just extreme angry because they are so much a like but no one wants to admit it. Dad is upset because he's trying to stop his son from making some of the "Bad Mistakes" he did. Son is pissed because in his eyes Dad is holding him back, restricting his "Freedom"! Nether will give in or compromise. "Sadly" Sometimes it takes something drastic to happen before they both see that these little matters aren't that big a deal and see beyond it!
Unfortunately all you can do is "Stand on The Outside Looking In", Make little hints and suggestions at times (Without hurting your relationship) and Pray they do See things and get back together before something "Drastic" does happen!
"It takes more then One to cause a Fade like this.
6. I think when you are young emotions feel extreme and with age / experience - understanding comes. It takes desire on both sides to make relationships work. If he is stubborn ad wants to hang on to anger/ resentment it is possible he has hatred. That's not to say it's healthy or desirable though.
7. I'm not sure whether it's hate or dislike in your bf's case, but I know teenagers can be violent enough to kill their parents (if they're mentally ill), like the infamous Menendez brothers did to their parents in Beverly Hills. They made a movie about it and thank goodness those guys are in prison.
Your bf should get counseling if he's saying he hates his dad. Regardless of the reason or who's at fault, it's eating him up inside.
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