Okay... well, my boyfriend and I.. we've been perfect for the past few months now.. and just like yesterday he starts to avoid me and not talk to me. I've tried talking to him, texting him, calling him everything. He won't talk to me. I haven't done anything, absolutely nothing that could've upset him. I really don't know what to do. I've tried having my friends talk to him too. None of it works. He just ignores my calls and everything. I absolutely love him to death and don't know why he's treating me this way.......... Help please..
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
I've tried talking to him he won't look even give me eye contact.
He says he loves me more than anything.
Recently I got a text.. like 3 hours ago and it said I love you, but no appology. SO I don't know if he's just taken this as a joke or something.
2. 8 hours ago
First of all I don't smother him. I have lunch with him everyday and see him in passing and that's about it. Occasionally on the weekends.
3. things are cooling off...he is fading out of your picture......time to consider a new "friend".
4. Talk to him face to face and ask him
5. if he is not responding, the first thought is that he is feeling guilty about something he has done or he is thinking about doing, but you cannot run around the topic, even if you leave a voicemail be straightforward and ask what is going, but you have to prepare yourself for the worst, because he may want to break up, or whatever. Just confront the issue and be prepared for the worst, Despite what he is feeling you have a right to know what is going on, and if he really loves you, he needs to come to you whether its a good or bad situation, i don't know how old you are, but if this is high school relationship, you cant expect him to respond in a mature way. Good Luck, hope this helps
6. Because you are obsessively nagging at him! Geez, can't you even go one hour without being in contact with him? Listen to yourself! Now that he needs a break from you, you've sent your friends out to hunt him down.
Grow up. Give him a break. He may be smothering under your "love him to death" attitude. You need to loosen your grip and get a life of your own. If you don't, you WILL lose him.
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