A girl that lives on my block told me my boyfriend was messing around with a girl in the neighborhood, and he tried to "holla" at 2 girls at the same time. He says he loves me and would never hurt me like that (heard that b4) but he does have a "bad boy swagga" and i'm just not sure...do you think I should end this relationship a.s.a.p
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1. why would she lie? for fun? thats ridiculous. clearly your getting played.
2. Why would this girl lie to you?
3. If I was u I would but talk to him first to see if thats true
4. I would only end it if you aren't completely satisfied that he has been honest with you. You need honesty in a relationship for it to work. Unless this girls fancies him for herself, she has no reason to lie.
5. I'd get more information if I was you. Talk to more people who live there. Don't go do something you'll regret.
6. just make sure first! but dont be asking him alot okaaay. just figure it out frst okaaay.
7. what would this girl have to gain by lying to you? Ask yourself that. Then if this kind of thing has happened before the GET OUT NOW! He won't change. Good luck
8. Do you mean "holler?" (that means "to yell at someone" in case you didn't know)
Do you mean "swagger?" (that means to walk around with a swagger)
Who do you have a commitment with? Some girl, or your boyfriend?
Actions speak louder than words. Is he trustworthy? Has there been a problem before? Just because someone puts on an act doesn't mean they are 'bad.' Have you ever heard of the saying "Don't judge a book by its cover?"
Of course if you want to you can condemn him without any proof. Of course, this girl has no reason to lie, has she? It's not possible that she is interested in him herself. So you should take everything she says at face value. In fact if I were you, I'd pattern my whole life after whatever this person tells me to do and not do any thinking for myself.
9. wait she could just be saying that cause she likes hI'm to. but then again he could be trying to cover it up . so the best thing to do would set down and tell im how you feel and encourage him to tell the truth and if that don't work and you are still confused then you might consider finding a new boyfriend but no one can really tell you what to do its your own life ... hope i helped
10. why would she lie? for fun? thats ridiculous. clearly your getting played.
11. Why would this girl lie to you?
12. If I was u I would but talk to him first to see if thats true
13. I would only end it if you aren't completely satisfied that he has been honest with you. You need honesty in a relationship for it to work. Unless this girls fancies him for herself, she has no reason to lie.
14. I'd get more information if I was you. Talk to more people who live there. Don't go do something you'll regret.
15. just make sure first! but dont be asking him alot okaaay. just figure it out frst okaaay.
16. what would this girl have to gain by lying to you? Ask yourself that. Then if this kind of thing has happened before the GET OUT NOW! He won't change. Good luck
17. Do you mean "holler?" (that means "to yell at someone" in case you didn't know)
Do you mean "swagger?" (that means to walk around with a swagger)
Who do you have a commitment with? Some girl, or your boyfriend?
Actions speak louder than words. Is he trustworthy? Has there been a problem before? Just because someone puts on an act doesn't mean they are 'bad.' Have you ever heard of the saying "Don't judge a book by its cover?"
Of course if you want to you can condemn him without any proof. Of course, this girl has no reason to lie, has she? It's not possible that she is interested in him herself. So you should take everything she says at face value. In fact if I were you, I'd pattern my whole life after whatever this person tells me to do and not do any thinking for myself.
18. wait she could just be saying that cause she likes hI'm to. but then again he could be trying to cover it up . so the best thing to do would set down and tell im how you feel and encourage him to tell the truth and if that don't work and you are still confused then you might consider finding a new boyfriend but no one can really tell you what to do its your own life ... hope i helped
19. who do you trust more? the gurl of your guy?
20. You might end up getting hurt, but you should trust his word over "some girl." She might like him and just want you out of the picture. Just went through the same thing recently. My best friend (also ex) has a friend who is this chick. I don't know her too well. She came to me telling me that he tried to sexually abuse her, her sister, and talks about me obsessively. I already knew that he still liked me. I freaked at first, but then talked to him. I took her word over his, turns out she likes him and wanted me to not hang with him anymore. (the irony is that he's my boyfriend again) But still, take his word for it for now, until you find proof of otherwise.
21. trust the girl
22. who do you trust more? the gurl of your guy?
23. You might end up getting hurt, but you should trust his word over "some girl." She might like him and just want you out of the picture. Just went through the same thing recently. My best friend (also ex) has a friend who is this chick. I don't know her too well. She came to me telling me that he tried to sexually abuse her, her sister, and talks about me obsessively. I already knew that he still liked me. I freaked at first, but then talked to him. I took her word over his, turns out she likes him and wanted me to not hang with him anymore. (the irony is that he's my boyfriend again) But still, take his word for it for now, until you find proof of otherwise.
24. trust the girl
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