ive tried to break up with her before...but somehow i always end up with ehr again...i dont wanna be with her...she doesnt seem to get it that i dont want to be with her anymore.
Answers:
1. tell her to go to hell.
2. Set her straight, you're hurting both of you. Just break it off.
3. Be straightforward and honest (without being rude), then severe the tie. It may take her time to realize that you really mean it this time, but she will realize it eventually.
4. Ignore her. Worked for me.
5. do what I did and I'm really not kidding... marry her best friend
6. Tell her you have another girl.
7. Just ignore her. You are apparently giving her the wrong message.
8. try to do something so she will dump you.
9. I THINK THE BEST WAY IS TO TELL HER CLEARLY, POLITELY AND FIRMLY THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP ISNT GOING ANYWHERE AND THERES NO POINT CONTINUING WHEN NOONE IS HAPPY .. GO TELL HER.....BE A MAN
10. Forget repitition: "This is our last conversation. Now, goodbyel."
11. Your problem is that ur not determined - If u don't wanna be with her, DONT be with her. Big deal. Tell her clearly, but not in a way that her heart breaks into pieces. And if she's way too pesky, avoid her! It'll be easier for her to move on
12. start dating someone new. don't care abt her. she will come to understand that she has been so silly and grow up one day. :)
13. some people are just not good with hints or at least they pretend not to get the hint, so be very gentle but firm and tell her that you no longer feel the same and that your lives are going in different directions now.
14. If you have a hard time asserting yourself, you can just push her away gently.
ex: being evasive when she talks, don't pay attention. Don't answer when she calls and don't call back. Find something else to do rather than be with her and tell her your busy. But under no circumstances: do not tell her what your doing instead.
I think that ur still with her because you're afraid to her her feeling. But you'll have to do that to gain your freedom.
15. Ignore her. Stop responding to her emails, hang up the phone when she calls, etc, If you really truly don't want to be with her, ignoring her shouldn't be difficult.
16. If you don't want to be with her, and you have told her so --- then it's done. Don't be with her. Don't go where she goes. Don't answer her calls. Don't talk to her -- OR ABOUT HER. Don't be a jerk, doesn't sound like you are -- just let it be done and she will move on -- but not until you make it 100% clear -- no going back, no drama --- .
17. Tell her the truth that u want to break away from her. Your points for leaving her must be clear cut and she understands it. Go abroad for sometime alone, giving u and her time to think over about your relationship. Get away from her as far as u can. If u can't, that means u still love her.
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