I used to have a very close friend. we did everything together. Then she dumped me for two new friends. Now we barley talk and my son gets left out of activities that her son is in. They used to be best friends. Should i move on or try and get her back?
Answers:
1. move on....
2. forgive and forget! try to patch things up with her!
3. keep moving on
4. move on...
5. u should move on w/ life
6. move on.....thats easy
7. that is a hard choice but i would try to get her back because u r puttting your son in it and its sounds like ur old enought to not be getting in theese kind of fights... hoped that helped and good luck
8. Find another girl asap and kiss her you'll forget so much faster
9. hey move on. it just happened to me and I almost killed myself. it is just not worth.
10. Best for you and your son to move on....He does not need that kind of complication.
11. i would feel sorry for yourself and act out accordingly,vandalism,stalking... destruction etc. this will make you feel better
12. why not try to figure out why you where dumped before you move on? sure dont want to be dumped again. this could be some info of value....
13. If she was close to you try to get her back. Plan a lunch date so you can tell her how much she means to you. Don't e-mail her about it though. It won't come by as sincere. Tell her that just because you guys aren't as close that your sons shouldn't suffer also.
14. Move on. You dump a lover for a new one; you don't dump your friends. You're supposed to keep the old ones even as you make new ones. I don't understand the values of people who would walk away from a freindship. And not only has she done that, but she has broken up the friendship that existed between your children, who are probably hurt and don't understand what happened. She doesn't sound like such a good person that you would want her back.
15. Move on and make new friends. When she realizes what she has done, and she eventually will, you will have more friends. You can never have enough of them and a true friend can forgive others faults and mistakes.
16. Well, you can try to talk to her and find out what happened. She's obviously telling her son something if he's now avoiding your son, too. Why else would her son do that unless he was being fed some info?
Or, the "best" option would be to move on. If she's going to be a fair weather friend like that, you don't need her.
17. Try and get her back, if that does not work then just move on. i think it will be better to set things right first instead of just giving up. Remember your child is also affected.
18. Move on for your son....kids don't need to be around drama, tension and other negative things
19. get over it and move on. she the one that lost out.
20. ive lost my best friend before and its really hard.... but if you are old enough to have a son then the women that left you in the dust is truly not worth it.... move on, that's what i did and now she wants back in my life, but im so used to not having her around that i find it hard to even have a conv. on the phone.... you gotta move on.... especially if you have a son
21. Let me put it this way: A mother is her child's biggest influence.
So, your ex-friend's son probably was told how "bad" and "horrible" you and your son were, and her son might have hurt your son's feelings.
If that's not the case, it's because of you and your ex-friend.
They probably feel uncomfortable when the mothers dislike each other... a suitable exercises would be placing yourself in your son's shoes.
That is the most popular method to figure out why the two stopped being friends. Once you figure that out, try and become friends with your ex-friend, too... spread the love!
PS. Love the name!
22. You can try to talk to her and just patch things up so there is not that awkwardness. Things most likely won't go back the same but its worth a try. if she does not make the effort then it would be best to just move on. it wont be worth it and its just immature of your friend to isolate your son. seems to me like she just needs to get her priorities straight and grow up. its time for your sons to act liek children, not the adult.
23. naw move on,,,, dont show then they have controll
24. Impossible to go back the damage has been done. You and your son will have to seek new friends. I hope you do not ever let your son know that he is being left out of activities. If he becomes sad because of the break up be cheerful and think of things the two of you can do together instead. Water under the bridge. If something like this happens she does not deserve to call you friend and you need to make your own way for yourself and your son.
25. No. Anyone that treats you and your son like that dont deserve you as a friend. Eventually she will come crawling back to you and you can tell her to touch it in the back. Be strong sister..
26. Damn, you sound "clingy". You never said WHY she dumped you. What are you, some sort of "Rosie-Ellen" clone? Get a life!!!!
27. get on with yours & your sons life>
28. She's not even ******* worth the damn trouble forget her.
29. I think u should try meet new friends because if she dumped u should dump her for friends that care! Everyone can make friends
30. MOVE on there are more things in life than just guys/girls (i have no clue)
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