I'm Asian.. people say I'm pretty, im only 14 and even thou I probably don't need a boyfriend I want one... but I can't seem to get one... Does that mean I'm not pretty or Is it becuase guys are mature enough.... im confused
Answers:
1. its cuz you are too old, guys want girls 13 and under nowadays
2. Could be any number of reasons, some good, some bad.
Just don't put yourself down, cause confidence is an important factor.
3. Please elaborate on not being able to get one. Guys your age my feel intimidated by good looks. Try engaging in conversations first, rather than having the guy talk to you.
4. A perfect guy will come eventually and it'll be worth the wait. There is no time limit on love. Right now they're probably too scared of your gorgeousness.
5. Being pretty does help in finding a mate...but there is so much more. Are you fun to be around? Are you kind to people? Are you a good conversationist? Is it all about you?
Be the whole package and you'll have no problem in finding someone.
6. Most boys your age are still interested in baseball, not girls. At 14 you are too young for a boyfriend. It's OK to have friends, but not date. Of course you want a boyfriend. You are 14 and your hormones are fluctuating. But hang in there until you are at least 16. That's a better age for dating.
7. ok i am 13 and i just recently got a bf and i didn't need one but i wanted one i am pretty sure you are realy pretty(almost all asians are pretty) and guys mature alot slower then girls do so you schould look for a sweet nice cute and mature guy and you schould be really happy!!! good luck!
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