I may have made the biggest mistake and from what i can see there is no way of going back. I enlisted in the United States Navy. Shortly after i fell in love with a young lady who has meant absolutly everything to me. I shipped out and i am now stationed on the opposite side of the country. About three months ago she broke up with me. She promised me she would remain single until after i came home one last time giving me one last chance to change her mind. Today she called me and told me she found someone else... there wasn't much i could say... i told her to tell her boyfriend that i was envious and that fate determines who walks into our lives, we determine who stays and who walks out as i hung up the phone... how do i move on? Any help would be helpful.
Answers:
1. It is obvious she wasn't mean't to be. It sounds cliche' but time will make it better. She was not the one. Sorry
2. Well, when we made some mistakes its a lesson that we should have to learned so it won't happen again and my advice to you; you should have to move on and forget about her....there lots of women out there who is much more deserving and better than her.........
3. It doesn't sound like she's the type of person who can handle a long-distance commitment, which is something you're going to need given your current career in the Navy. Spend time with friends, pursue activities you enjoy, meet new people, read good books, see a movie... get my drift? Every day it will get easier and you will think about her less and less. And don't see this as a mistake - it just means your life has a different direction. It's an adventure.
Good luck.
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