as i have been posting alot that i recently had my heart broken, anyway before we broke up we ended up getting three cats together and they live with me. my ex lives with mommy lame she's 27 lol. anyway i'm getting ready to move out of my old apartment and into a new one. should i take responsibility for the the cats? or should i make her take them for a few months since within the 4yrs we were together they lived with me the whole time. oh yeah two of the cats are brothers and the other one she gave to me as a birthday presant this year cause i wanted it. so techancally two are my and one is hers. but i have taken care of them for the whole 4yrs. please give me your opinion. and yes i do love this cats to deat they all have their unique personalities
Answers:
1. Keep the cats. They hold precious memories, and they've learned to live with you. Why give them away now? Just remember the bond that you and your ex shared and give it to the kitty cat.
2. keep the cats.
3. HI SWEETIE WELL I LOVE CATS AND DOGS I HAVE 3 GERMAN SHEPARDS AND 1 SNAKE AND A HUGE FISH TANK WITH LOTS OF PRETTY FISH AND 1 BIG FAT CAT. I LOVE ANIMALS SO KEEP THEM THERE YOURS AND THEY'L KEEP YOU BUSY AND YOU WONT BE SO ALONE.WHEN WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY? IM GLAD YOUR MOVING INTO A NEW PLACE. I WISH YOU COULD COME OVER AND SEE MY ANIMALS ID PAY FOR YOUR TRIP AND EVERYTHING JUST TO GET YOUR MIND OF THINGS AND ID TAKE YOU TO THE NICEST PLACES TO EAT OR I COULD COOK FOR YOU.ANYWAYS MY DARLING KEEP THE CATS. AND ILL TALK TO YOU LATER LOVE YOU SWEETIE!XOXO!
4. Yes, please do keep the cats they have grown to love and depend upon you for their survival and I am sure they have given you lots of love and affection in return over the years.
Whenever you have two cats that are from the same litter, and you have kept them together throughout the years, then try your very best to continue to keep them together, as they not only count on you to help them but they also count on each other in moral support of each other, NEVER break them up.
If I were you, personally, I would find a way to keep all the cats even if my ex refused to assist me, screw her, your not with her anymore, and she probably doesn't even care about the cats anymore, she is more interested in securing another boyfriend then to worry about taking care of the cats from a previous affair. You on the other hand seem to care very deeply for the well fair of your cats, thus the reason that you have posted this question on this site, so take the lead, keep the cats and take them with you to your new place of residence.
Many single ladies like guys that have cats, probably because it shows that the guy cares for animals which gets you points with the ladies and that you are responsible enough to take care of your pets, another good sign for the ladies.
Having cats is a great way to meet new females, and if the lady you meet lovesd animals as much as you do, this will clearly be obvious when she meets them, watch how the cats react with the lady and this will tell you whether or not she really loves cats or is just putting on an act for your benefit.
If the new lady doesn't like your cats, disolve the relationship with the new lady, cause anyone that doesn't love animals is not the type of person that I would want to raise a family with.
If you need additional advise with your cats, then send me an email at: fluidmotion2008@gmail.com and I would be more then happy to help you with any questions you might have with the cats.
Good Luck and thanks for giving these cats a good loving home, they will love you much in return and always be there waiting for you when you get home from work, they are very loyal, dependable and trustworthy, and they won't 'play around on you behind your back'!
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