ok, so i have this freind. we have been friends scince 1st grade. ok, so now were in 7th grade. were in junior high, a whole new school. she has completely changed. its like she tries sooo hard to fit in. she was never like that before. she makes fun of people and dosen't care how bad it is or what trouble she'll get into. there is like this group of friends and she tries to fit in with them. she follows them around everywhere and they berely even talk to her. they say alot of stuff behind her back and i try to tell her and she just says, "don't be jealous just because they are my freinds and not yours". and she acts soo different with me now. like the other day she started calling me emo just cuz of the music i listen to. i don't even act emo. or dress it. and she is calling herself "punk rocker" and stuff like that but she dosen't even like rock. she all the time listens to pop. and this year they allow the girls to wear makeup and in the beggining of school, she started
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1. 8 hours ago
wearing pretty light makeup. light eyeliner and light pretty pink eyeshadow. now shes waering dark dark ugly eyeliner and a dark shade of lipstick and dark eyeshadow. it just looks terrible. and it seems like everything i say is wrong or she has to disagree. like the other day, i was telling her about this guy and how i liked his eyes and she started telling me ewww hes soo ugly and kept going on and on and then now one of her so called ''freinds'' is going out with him and shes all oohhh your are such a cute couple and your soo lucky to have him. and she dosen't make fun of me but she does to all of my freinds. it seems like she only comes to me when she wants something, but i'm not gonna let that happen anymore. nobody likes her and those so called ''freinds'' tell her to do stuff for them and she does it. she is soo desperate to fit in. i think she was more popular when she didn't try. i have tried to tell her but she just starts getting mad and says " i knew you were gonna do
2. 8 hours ago
this. i have other freinds too, just like you". but yet she's still ignoring me and acting like she's everything. i don't know what i should do? what should i do?
3. wait what was the question again?
4. i have had the same problem in 7th grade..this girl and i were super tight and then she ditched me to try and become popular and now she even ignores me! i say that you ditch her before you get hurt...it might be hard but do you really want to be friends with her??? you might want to call her and have a heart to heart...Tell me how it goes!!!
5. you should find better friends ...when she figures out they dont like her shell come back
6. She's having an identity fit. Most teenagers go through this at some point and emerge alive.. Others just never get out of the rut.
Point is, if you're tired of taking her sh*t, let it go. People change, especially through highschool, and whether you like it or not, you will probably become friends with better but different people.
Support her and still be her friend, but if she continues being a cow forget it and rather concentrate on other people/friendships. You don't have to be mean back, just focus on better people and focus your energy into that.
You don't need negative people bringing you down.
7. when you go into a new school you're gonna make new friends and probably lose old ones. when i started middle school all my old friends went into the popular crowd, i went with the people who get along with everyone no matter what they wear or who they hang out with. i ended up being better off because of it. your friend has made a bad decision but you don't have to let yourself be dragged down with her. make new friends, you'll be a lot happier.
8. give her space and wait for her to get screwed over itsounds mean but until she learns the hard way she wont listen just dont give in and start actig like her because u dont wat to loose ur friendship...in junior high u can loose ur closest friends but u will make new ones and u really find out who ur true friends are..im a freshman in higschool now and i have changed friends like 30 times but my friends now i would kill for
9. well find new friends to hang with u dont have to change ur self to fit with her new crew eventally shell come back but if she dosnt ull have new friends i mean talk to her dont just let her make fun of you just if she calls u emo and shes the one wearing the dark make-up say someting like look whos talking hope i helped out
10. Middle school is the time people you thought were your friends end up to be totally *** holes and bitches therefore dump her *** because it'll only get worse and those so called friends of hers will eventually end up hurting her and she'll come to her ******* senses trust and believe that.
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