Bad situation!!? That i can't ignore!!?

1. 8 hours ago
my parents don't know about this because if they do the'd flip out

2. 8 hours ago
and no im in 7th grade

3. 8 hours ago
but if i always hang out with him its my problem to not just his

4. 8 hours ago
thnx you guys rock!!! : )

5. 8 hours ago
o and you would get a level 6 expulsion for getting into a fight so thats why i haven't blown off their heaads yet

6. go up to them and tell them to back off..or else!

7. get teachers involved...

8. your boyfriend shouldn't be depending on you to stop them.. he needs to find a way to end it.

9. tell an adult or confront the girls and tell them firmly to stop!

10. Ok try to get them To think You hate them.. Pretend to talk about them To your boyfriend... and Ask " Umm Excuse me but why are you Following us? What are you Stalkers!?" It wrked when i tryed it! :P

11. just tell the girls 2 get there own boy toy to follow around like a dog like goshand tell them to get a life of there own like gosh

12. you should go up to each of them privately, alone, and ask them why they are doing it. if they don't answer, then just make sure that they get the message: "my bf DOESN'T like you so back off."

13. u should just be friends than trying to get him to like u back

14. what if instead of ignoring them, you pretend they don't exist???????? i guess they'll get frustrated and move on, your anoyance toward them and frustration is only feeding their fire, you said so yourself, these girls have no life so why give them a time of day

15. You tell your boy friend to deal with it. If he is man enough he will never allow those girls to intimidate him.

16. What is your actual question? You can't MAKE someone else change their behavior, you can only change your own. Ignore them, walk away, and don't give them the attention or drama they seem to crave. Being a drama whore seems to also be in your nature, so if you really want this to stop, then don't associate with these girls and your boyfriend needs to ignore them too. If they don't get a reaction, they'll get bored faster and move on to someone else.

17. ok, so even though this might annoy him, follow him around a little bit, and when those girls show up, do what i'd do....kiss him! it will drive them INSANE! Show off your life, trust me they will leave him alone

18. well try to get a realy BIG friend or person to tell them if i ever see you folowing these two ever agian you will not be able to follow or walk any more and pay the dude 5 bucks or some thing

19. throw eggs at em

20. If you are under the age of 18, have your parents or guardians file for a restraining order. This can be enforced in the school as well. If you think you or your boyfriend may be physically harmed by these girls, then get a restraining order. If they come within so many feet of you, then they will be in violation of the order and can be arrested.

21. .wow what bullshit, what is wrong with people, you would think that these girls would have something better to do with their time..... but to be honest i see that you have two options, one you can face them and get in the cat fight and do what you can, and the second is to tell the authorities, i would recommend the first because getting other people involved has a new set of problems but its just not worth the crap you're dealing with.... so stand up for yourself and if still nothing changes.... then go to someone about it

22. Hey girl, I totally know what you are saying. I hate it when people say to just ignore it/them. I can't do that and really no one can. So these losers that follow your boyfriend. They're just immature. I mean if you are really outgoing/outspoken just one day maybe when you are walking with him and they are following just turn around grab his hand and be like "Hey, ok just stop following him, your so immature its not funny." But if you dont want to do that yourself just get and outspoken friend or maybe one of his friends to just go up to them and tell them to stop. Good luck I really hope all goes well

23. this sounds a bit like running around the field chasing boys in elementry school. Are you in elementry school? I think you need to threaten then and follow through with this is they refuse to stop, tell them you will contact security or the cops if they continue to follow your bf around. And do it, they are stalking him. If not, its up to bf to go head on. He needs to talk to them, find out what went wrong and make it right. That might be the only way to get them to back off.

24. I wouldn't be able to ignore it either. The only thing you can do is confront them, up front, face to face. Tell them that you don't like it and that he doesn't like it. If they want to get physical, try to avoid it. They deserve it, but suspension isn't worth it. If they still don't stop, tell your teacher or principal, or anyone you trust at the school that you know would help. They can make it so they can't come anywhere near you or him. I've been in a similar situation, it's harassment and you can't ignore it. I'm a sophomore and it's happened to me a few times throughout the years. I'm serious, you can't take this lightly.

25. Is this happening in school? If so, I would go to the guidance counselor, you and your boyfriend, that way you can attest to the facts as well. Also if there is anyone else that has seen this happening first hand, and if they are willing to talk to the guidance counselor or principal on your behalf, I would take their names on a piece of paper and leave it with him/her, so he can hear it from them as well. If that doesn't work, maybe get your parents involved. Have your parents call your boyfriends parents, talk about it, and one of them call one of the girls parents. If that doesn't work, there is always going to the police. Minors are governed by the same harassment laws that adults are, and harassment is defined by doing something to someone purposely that causes distress. Good Luck! God Bless!! ps, and I definitly woudn't "confront them face to face." if these girls are as catty as they sound, I'd so the mature thing, and not risk getting into some stupid cat fight. It will just look like you're fighting over a boy, and make everyone invoved, including you, look like silly little kids. Trust me, go to someone within the school that you trust, and tell them. Tell them that you're not "tattleing" but you want to resolve the issue without getting into a fight, and that it really is making you and your boyfriends lives miserable. Good Luck! God Bless!!

26. This is tough but how about turning the tables? Have him smile at them; say something nice to them; pretend they don't bother him. Maybe that would turn them around to like him. He has to change his attitude because you can't stop them. They know they bug him so they keep doing it. They won't know what to say or do if he starts being nice to them! Is he man enough to say he's sorry for that small thing that bothered them so much? Is it worth it to keep things the way they are? I doubt it.

27. well first have tried to tell them. And if they don't listen then make new friends cause they probably will get mad but if they do then they are not real friends

28. These girls are called bullies and thay are showing off. Ask them to stop one more time. If thay don't get some help. There are to many of them for you to deal with alone. Good Luck.

29. if your boyfriends really a man then he should be able to stick up for himself to these girls... maybe hes just a pansy and you should just dump him

30. Tell them to go away, asking them why they are doing this, then by finding a way through it. If they refuse, dial for help from the police.

31. OK if they are bothering your boyfriend HE should be the one to sort this situation out not YOU . So tell your boyfriend it is His problem and HE should handle it soon so as you won't be upset......................HE started it let Him finish it !

32. Talk to an adult figure about this, whether it be a teacher or your parents and ask if they can get involved. However, if their actions continue, try to single them out with embarrassment. (however, i would only resort to this if nothing else works.) Say things like, " Are you that desperate for his attention that you have to stalk us like this? Geeze you must be really bored, lez, or both!" or " Wow, I'd really hate to have your life, if the only excitement is to just bug us for a stupid incident! Are you THAT starved for attention?" By focusing the attention back to them, hopefully they'll be embarrassed enough to stop and leave you both alone.

33. well you say that you can't ignore it so you are going to what needs to be done that is beat one up real bad. taking is not working so the next step.

34. tell them to back the **** off or you'll **** them up, wait he should be stopping them unless he likes the attention and doesn't want to fess up about it.