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1. It is different for every person. Just whenever you feel comfortable is when you should start another. There are no rules.
2. Start dating again whenever you feel ready. There are no hard and fast rules that you need to stick to.
You may want to spend some time rediscovering yourself and doing some of the things that you may not have had an opportunity to do these past years.
You could join some classes or clubs, and go out with your girlfriends. That way, you'll start socializing again, and start to meet men, without any pressures to date, until such a time as you feel ready.
Good luck and enjoy this new chapter in your life. The best is yet to come.
3. When ever you feel you are ready its different for everybody. Take your time and enjoy being single for a while and make sure you have dealt with everything there is to deal with because the last thing you need is to bring baggage into a new relationship. good luck
4. dont wait for what others will think, go out tonight if ur ready
5. I think you guys will be back together cmon 17 yrs waisted
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6. If this were me....I'd take a year to regroup and maybe even get a few sessions of counseling.
That's a long time to be in a relationship and in order not to bring baggage into the next relationship you need to decompress.
7. I'd start today.
I'm not saying to go out and grab the next guy who walks by you. What I am saying is that for 17 years you were with one person. Enjoy your new freedom without putting a lot of pressure on yourself. Go out with different people without asking yourself, "Is this the next one?" or "Am I doing this just to get back at my ex?".
Once you can learn to enjoy just being out with someone for the sake of their company, you'll enjoy life more. Once you enjoy life more, you can start asking yourself when you're ready to start another serious relationship.
8. I once watched this TV about breakups, the counsellor on there reckons it's a good idea to stay single for a whole year before starting another, so that by the time you start a new relationship it's a case of WANTING to be in it, not feeling like you NEED to be. Although it depends on the person. Whenever you feel ready, and aren't clouded by previous issues. There aren't really any rules, play it by how you feel. Good luck!
9. if your a christian then let god pick your next relationship
if your not a christian then i would still let god pick the next one
i know because i just ended a eleven year marriage (third one) i suck at picking a mate so I'm going to let god pick the next one.you can't go wrong if you let god take control of your life.so find the nearest church and let god do the rest
10. Take responsibility. Don't let god do what you are suppose to do and what he gave you the necessary tools to learn from your mistakes and wants you to use them. Don't be lazy, don't put the fault on God if it fails. There is no need to start another one, what makes you think you need to do that?. If you want, you can start right now, but again, what's the point?. Become and support a co-dependency behaviour that you have to have to be with someone?. I would strongly suggest to stay single and figure things out as a single person, learn to think single, learn to act single, learn to be single and conquer your happines as a single person, you have already been in a relationship for so long, don't miss what is to be single. If someone comes later, well, consider that as a possibility, yout I think you will LOVE being single, the lifestyle has great things and is not what people think it is, is completely different once you conquer the art and the beauty of being single.
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