My "friend" yelled at me about something that she had no idea about. She didn't even say sorry. My other "friends" said that she was being really mean. Should I let it go or hold on?
Answers:
1. i would maybe she was just having a bad day and she was grumpy you never know
2. forgive her, but dont forget. dont bring it up, but know that it might e in her nature to jump to conclusions. seperate yourself from her little by little/
3. Let it go. If she does it again, confront her while being very calm and collected. Let her know that it bothered you and you'd rather not be treated like that.
4. Explain what the real deal is, she might not have a clue.
If she's still being a cow, let it go. You're above petty behaviour.
Let it go sister.. It'll be easier on you that way, laugh it off. She'll probably see how stupid she's being and dig a shamehole to lick her wounds in.
5. Ask her why she yelled at you first before you say your sorry. She may knew what you guys were talking about or maybe she was yelling at you form another topic. If you really did do something wrong say your sorry and try to make up and if it really wasnt your fault, then dont. Thats what i think.
6. It's just a small matter, and not something serious. You're bad because she yelled at you and embarassed you. I can understand that you're still probably steaming right now. Cool down, and when you are ready, just forget about it.
7. same thing happened bout a week ago but her dad just left her and her sis and her mom so it could just b problems at home or someting just say sorry even if u did nothing and shell come around my bff did i said sorry 4 times when i did nothing at all i just cant not b her firned 4 more than a day or so
8. Forgive, forget. Move on. If she does it again, just nicely bring it up that she's done that before, and you don't like the way she's treating you. Also, you never know, it might just be the way she is, she might just yell at people all the time, not realizing that people are hurt by it.
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